Comments | cntrymscfan0213: Advice needed

cntrymscfan0213

Advice needed

Jan 02, 2007 10:10

Okay so Karla sent me a message on myspace saying "I'm sorry about what happened on New Years Eve, but I already had plans and I was trying to tell you that when you hung up. I am always at your house on New Years and wanted to do something different". I deleted it because what she said was a bunch of BULL CRAP. She told me on the phone that SHE ( Read more... )

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_rubberbandgirl January 2 2007, 18:54:07 UTC

I don't think you should call her. You've already said what you wanted/needed to say, and if she can't realize what she's doing, or doesn't want to admit it, then it's her loss, not yours. If she really values you as a friend, she'd try a little harder. In my experience, at least.

hey cntrymscfan0213 January 2 2007, 18:55:41 UTC

I got another message from her on myspace saying that Andrea made plans with her way before I did. I think that's a bunch of crap. I asked her atleast two months a go if she wanted to hang out on new years.

Re: hey _rubberbandgirl January 2 2007, 19:03:37 UTC

Now it sounds like she's just making excuses. You could message her back and tell her that if she still wants to be friends, you'll be here. But that she has to be the one to make the effort now. I for sure wouldn't want to keep trying and then get nothing in return but lies and excuses.

Good luck. :)

Re: hey cntrymscfan0213 January 2 2007, 22:07:17 UTC

I sent her one final message. She sent me one saying "I didn't say I would go. I said MAYBE. There's a difference". I sent her one saying "Maybe means you are not sure. You told me you are not sure because you were waiting to hear from Joe and Andrea." Then I said I was done.

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