i just can't let go.

[coastermaniac04]

hopefully this will be one of my last posts about this for a while..

i could just try to get over her, like i've done with all the others.
i could just forget about it, since it's going nowhere.
i could just move on, and continue my search.

in fact, i should do all these things.

but i just can't do it this time.
that's how strong these feelings are.
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[coastermaniac04]

the phrase 'get over it' has such a negative connotation. one hears the phrase and assumes that 'getting over it' means forgetting completely and not caring anymore.

each time i've had to 'get over it', it's been a very difficult process, and often times an ongoing process that still isnt overwith. and 'getting over it' doesnt necessarily mean that i want to have to get over it, but because of circumstances and other uncontrollable things, i have to force myself to do so.

so please don't take what i said harshly. it was not intended to be that way.

[youweremytune]

john my only thoughts are you dont want to be with someone who doesnt want to be with you. everyone is told the over and over and many say it, however when your in the situation, youre like umm yeah but i do want to... i think its worth being with them yadda yadda. but trust me its not worth it. I've been there... ive been in the exact same spot (probably not exact since every instance has differences) but i'm tellin' ya its funny how life works. when you really want them and they dont want you, later the tables will turn and you will be over it and they'll be crawling back realizing what theyve been missing. its just a matter of time. the only problem is once you've reached the point of youre over it is whether or not you want to get sucked back into those feelings again.

I really do <3 you John :) I wish the best for you.
im here if u need to talk i promise ima good listener