14th of February. A strange custom to celebrate. I was under the impression that a healthy relationship between two lovers is only serviceable if affection is shown often, rather than specifically on a single day
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Ray, spreading holiday joy since 2010!ray_tremblayFebruary 14 2010, 18:17:15 UTC
Yes, happiness at the misfortune of others. While the primary reasons for this "holiday" is to exchange tokens of affection with couples, it is only really celebrated as a means of couples showing off their relationships to those who do not. It's a golden opportunity for people to kick others when they are down without them looking like an ass.
Well aside from the candy sales it... it gives people an excuse to be more mushy and romantic than they usually would. The kinds of things you'd be embarrassed to do any other time but since there's a day for it you don't have to feel silly.
Uh well, that's kind of hard to explain. Most people feel jus out of place acting really romantic when no one else is I guess. There's probably some psychology or something behind it.
The conspiracy idea seems to be the leading theory among those of us without romantic entanglements, it's true.
Perhaps, though, it's more of an annual reminder to pay attention to your relationships year round, in the same way that Christmas is an annual reminder to be generous for the rest of the year.
Sometimes people tune things out if they hear them every day. A single noteworthy event can stay in one's memory much more effectively than mundane reminders.
Or so I'd think. It's not as if I've ever been in love myself, or felt the desire to be.
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For instance... if I would have happened to buy a rather large box of chocolates-
*and keep in mind Axel IS holding one*
-for a beautiful lady, who would have the right to stop me on this day of all days?
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Of course, if I wanted to give the chocolates to you, Miss Loveless, I wouldn't have to worry about customs at all now would I?
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At least that's how I see it.
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Perhaps, though, it's more of an annual reminder to pay attention to your relationships year round, in the same way that Christmas is an annual reminder to be generous for the rest of the year.
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Or so I'd think. It's not as if I've ever been in love myself, or felt the desire to be.
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