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[cokebottlei]

Just some things I was thinking...I wonder about my and other people's insecurities. Things people see in themselves as flaws. For me, I know I have many flaws. I try to work on them and improve. Sometimes, I lose hope and just give up on myself. I begin to think how worthless I feel. I know I should feel positive and see good things in me.

Comments

[lovely_poison]

I think everyone has insecurities. Even people who you may see as beautiful with a terrific life style you wish you had. It sucks, but it seems like no matter what we do or no matter how we try there is always some thing about ourselves we just don't like.

and trust me, there is some one out there for you. Be patient :)

[crayola_smiles]

I think there are so many people that have similar feelings, me included. Something's happened in my past thats destroyed my way of thinking and feeling and Im left having insecurities where I cant go into pubs/shops or anywhere with people coz Im so paranoid. I have days where I know I wont have a good time and refuse to go out, but then there are days where I just feel so positive I have to. Im very sure there is someone out there for you...there was for me :) May be a few years or a few days but there is bound to be somebody that comes into your life and when that happens try to forget these insecurities and get what you want for a change xxx

[jessie__]

Whenever I feel worthless I just think about how every single thing I do or don't do ultimately effects many many people that I won't ever meet. I don't know if you believe that philosophy but indirectly you're effecting everyone with each little decision you make. That's what makes the world go 'round I guess.

Anyway yeah we all have insecurities. It's healthy to have them and you will find someone who is right for you probably when you least expect it :)

[linden_dryad]

You'll find someone when it's the right time. But it's true that you must love yourself before someone else can love you right back.

[tensionpneumo]

I can relate to that very well. I have HUGE self-esteem problems. I have since as far back as I can remember. I'm my own enemy and worse critic. But I can also be my own best friend.