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Jul 13, 2005 19:00

Wow, I suppose it's been awhile. I don't know why I always choose to write in this journal when I'm in a funk, but I do. But so here's the problem du jour. I have this sister. I have moved her down here, let her borrow almost $1,000, found her some very good jobs, and given her all my friends (with whom I now no longer associate, and finally I let ( Read more... )

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***HUGS*** bluesteelstars July 14 2005, 00:43:48 UTC

Hey Chelle, I totally understand how you feel. I am a big sis to two other sibs, and I have felt what you have written several times in my tenure. It hurts and it sucks and sometimes, you just need to put your foot down.

xoxo

Re: ***HUGS*** collidinghearts July 14 2005, 21:08:12 UTC

Thanks! I actually got some sleep last night, so things seem to be a bit better.

way2tired July 14 2005, 03:06:20 UTC

you need a vacation!

I Agree! collidinghearts July 14 2005, 21:06:44 UTC

I think we all need a group vacation away from all the people we know. With lots of alcohol. And sun. And no worries.

heatherglenn July 14 2005, 13:06:51 UTC

A vacation to Austin! For Austin City Limits Fest! I've decided that even if it means not paying bills, or eating ramen for 2 months, I'm going. The not-getting-paid-until-sept-25th situation be damned!

I can relate to the not feeling connected to your family. I've been pondering that one myself recently. I feel somewhat connected to my parents, but my brother and my sister are a different story. My brother and I get along...but I'm not sure I'd say we were "connected." We keep it on a superficial level, and I'm not too sure why. He's just really guarded, I think...and I am, too, but not as much as him. My sister is a completely different story. We don't talk. Ever. The only times I ever have any interaction with her is when I'm in VA. And I don't really miss her. It's sad.

collidinghearts July 14 2005, 21:05:40 UTC

I wish I could. I have to coincide all vacations with the people I nanny for unfortunately. :(

I almost planned a trip to Austin for this weekend, but then their plans changed. Maybe August?

I just read about your mom. I am so so sorry. If you need anything at all, any time of day, please call. It's hard going through something like that, especially with the distance.