Comments | colynsmommy: The other side of the story

colynsmommy

The other side of the story

Jun 03, 2006 16:51

Okay, so I thought it was pretty unfair of me to post my side of the Mike saga the other day, without also posting his, or rather, his girlfriend's story as well. You be the judge! And Mike, if you're reading this, please stop calling me! You've asked me to stop contacting, and I have enough respect for you to do what you've asked of me. I'd ( Read more... )

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What a wack job darkangel1074 June 4 2006, 01:59:57 UTC

That's a bit confusing, to say the least. If you ask me, they're not worth your time. If he's really a black belt as he clames to be, he's not acting like it. With all his bitterness and anger, I wouldn't want him teaching my kids, or anybody else I know karate. I've read all you've written, and the entry she's written, and my take on it is that you should just count your blessings, and thank goodness you don't have to deal with them. I think you'd definitely be uncomfortable taking karate from that crazy man again, because you'd never know when he'd take his bitterness or anger out on you. Every time he'd feel a bit pissed off about something, you'd be the whipping boy, or girl, in your case. That wouldn't be fair to you, and it wouldn't be a healthy environment for you to develop your karate skills, or grow mentally, or spiritually. Just know that you've done the right thing apologizing to him. You're conscience should be clear, and you can finally put the past where it belongs. Let them self-destruct on their own. It ( ... )

Re: What a wack job colynsmommy June 5 2006, 02:58:28 UTC

Thank you for saying that. It's nice to be told you're not crazy, when in situations like this one. It's really ashame Mike can't except my apology in the spirit that I meant it to be taken in. A true and honourable black belt would have just excepted it and then moved on. None of this calling me asking for different people for whatever reason. No, I'm glad I'm not affiliated with them anymore. Mike instilled in me my deep love for karate, and I'll thank him and sensei Legacy and everybody who taught me ten years ago. I wish them all the best in the future, and I hope Mike some day becomes the man and black belt he thinks he is now, but isn't. Any true black belt would have seen I was sincere, and wouldn't harbour such ill feelings after ten long years.

Oh My god! mariamartinez June 5 2006, 17:09:02 UTC

You know, I've been reading your journal for awhile now, because I really love hearing about your son. He sounds just adorable, and you have a great attitude about everything, including this Mike character. It's a small world, but I'd been reading his girlfriend's journal for awhile before she made it friend's only, and I read that post in there. I had no idea she'd been talking about you, or I'd have told you as soon as I started reading your journal that I also know about her. If you look at my journal, you'll see a not-so-nice comment in there from her, because I guess she thought I was you. After she went friends only I asked to be added to her journal. I lied and said I was from Australia, because it was the furthest place away from Canada I could think of. Unfortunately, she had some way of checking on where I was really from, and put the pieces together. She still thought I was you though, so I replied to her comment, saying that I was not Tammy, and she should stop being such a drama queen. She accused me/you of I ( ... )

Re: Oh My god! colynsmommy June 5 2006, 18:54:18 UTC

Oh wow! I just checked out your lj. Thanks for sticking up for me, but I really wish you hadn't lied to her about where you were from. I don't want to cause them any trouble, and contrary to what they think, I never wanted to cause any trouble for them. Please delete any journal entries you may have, as they're no use to me. While I appreciate where you're coming from, I also appreciate where they're coming from. They don't want to be bothered by me, and i don't want to be bothered by them. She can write whatever she wants about me in her journal, and I can write anything I want to about her in mine. We're all entitled to our opinion, and those people who choose to read our journals can believe whatever they want to. It doesn't bother me that she went frends only. I think it was a very cowardly move, it shows me that she doesn't like people contradicting her, (and she may just feel very threatened by those people who do), but other then that I don't really care. The one I care about is Mike, and obviously, he doesn't want ( ... )