2006-02-07 06:58:55 PM
Aquatic Bee basically, up until eleventh grade i had little to no idea what i wanted to do with my life. college wasn't seeming like anything that was going to happen, and even high school wasn't certain to be finished. i only sort of recognized it at the time, but the truth was that i had no direction, goals or real future ahead of me at all.
then, to fulfill a community service requirement for the high school program i was in, i volunteered as a cabin leader at an outdoor school. all the volunteers took on "nature names" so i picked Cometboy, after a writer named Aaron Cometbus. while volunteering at the outdoor school i found out how strongly i feel about environmentalist issues, and i also realized that i very much enjoy working with kids. this job incorporated both of these, and i was instantly enamored with it. i worked at the organization's summer camp that summer, and was a cabin leader again the following year. after that the amount of time i spent there grew more and more as i came back every opportunity i could. the more i was there the more i realized what it was that i wanted to do with my life: teach children and adults about environmental responsibility. for the first time in my life i had a future, so to speak.
i eventually became an intern at the school, amassed 2,600 hours of community service there (roughly three solid months) and met nearly all the friends and mentors i have still kept in touch with despite moving away. they all know me as Comet, and i know all of them by their nature names (Tundra, Avocado, Raven, etc.) i even met my girlfriend there, and we have been dating for a year and a half as of last week. her entire family calls me Comet, so much so that her Grandmother only found out my real name about a month ago. pretty much all of the people i love who i am not related to either met me at camp or through somebody else who did. Comet more or less took over as my name, which i was totally fine with. i'm constantly reminded of all the leadership and role modelling skills i learned at camp whenever i go by my camp name, and though i know it sounds cheesy, the person i became through volunteering is more or less the person i want to be for the rest of my life.
i have no real problem with Alex, but he didn't really accomplish much, to be honest. all the things i am proud of were done by Comet, and the seeds of everything i want to be were planted by Comet. i just want my volunteering experience to never leave me.
now, having said that, i understand that to an outsider it may just seem like i made some ridiculous decision to name myself some ridiculous name for attention, and that this choice will probably get me a lot of crap from people. while it may make some things better for me, it may also make some things worse, particularly in situations where i need a total stranger to take me seriously on paper. for this reason, i'm thinking more and more that it may be a good idea to only add it as a middle name and not as a first name. this way i can maintain a facade of normalcy if needed, but i will have an easier time being able to justify going by Comet in general daily life.
any advice, suggestions, support or further beratement would be appreciated.
2006-02-07 06:59:41 PM
Aquatic Bee oops, exclamation points get filtered out.
2006-02-07 07:00:27 PM
IamPatSajak Yeah.. I still say comet is a dog's name and your DIT is too long.
2006-02-07 07:00:49 PM
twoody "Comet"
Hmm... and your parents weren't even hippies?
2006-02-07 07:01:32 PM
Aquatic Bee twoody
Hmm... and your parents weren't even hippies?
no, but their son is.
2006-02-07 07:01:43 PM
akakii Go with the middle name. Or spend the rest of your life having people laugh at you when you introduce yourself.
2006-02-07 07:02:06 PM
snackwagon I had a parakeet named Comet. He wasn't a hippy though.
2006-02-07 07:02:24 PM
nin_man I'm not reading all that.
Comet is a stupid name unless you're a dog or a cleaning supply.
2006-02-07 07:02:34 PM
trashcancream 2006-02-07 07:02:56 PM
MoriyaMug
You're going to change your ACTUAL name to Comet? While I can respect the notion behind it, it's going to make plenty of trouble. At least in terms of people not taking you seriously.
2006-02-07 07:03:02 PM
twoody Do people get you confused with the scouring powder?
Do you guys remember the dude named "Canoe" on Disney's "That Darn Cat?"
2006-02-07 07:03:11 PM
lego7 twoody: and your parents weren't even hippies
So, what we need is a big drill....
2006-02-07 07:03:18 PM
Aquatic Bee akakii
all the self-righteous, individualist indignation i can muster can't make me deny that you're right.
2006-02-07 07:04:25 PM
Aquatic Bee MoriyaMug
what about as a middle name?
2006-02-07 07:04:34 PM
cjo Legally changing your name won't help you deal with your lack of accomplishments before you got your stupid nature nickname.
2006-02-07 07:05:27 PM
flubby My cat is named Comet. Seriously.
2006-02-07 07:05:29 PM
No_47 *wonders why this submission was made*
*stops wondering and gets mad*
*punches things*
*hurts pinky finger*
This all your fault, asshole. Think about who you're hurting when making pointless resubmissions, ok?
2006-02-07 07:06:15 PM
Aquatic Bee cjo
i don't have trouble dealing with my previous lack of accomplishments. my accomplishments have allowed me to deal with it.
2006-02-07 07:07:12 PM
cjo And if you thought so much of Comet why isn't it a part of your Fark username? I'd try that out first.
2006-02-07 07:07:51 PM
Bill_Wick's_Friend w/ bleach or without?
2006-02-07 07:08:00 PM
Zipster Middle name is fine. Then you're just Alex C. Farker
Doing the first name would be a bad idea.
2006-02-07 07:08:18 PM
toddp10 tambin muchas palabras, senior!
2006-02-07 07:08:55 PM
MoriyaMug Aquatic Bee: what about as a middle name?
Better, but it's not something I'd ever call attention to, were I you. You might want to consider another way of paying tribute to the experience, one which is something a bit less... broadcasted. From the sound of things, it's for deeply personal reasons in the first place... so a deeply personal gesture is likely to be more appropriate.
2006-02-07 07:09:06 PM
Manta537 I have only accomplished thing while being called stud-muffin.
2006-02-07 07:09:13 PM
Aquatic Bee cjo
And if you thought so much of Comet why isn't it a part of your Fark username? I'd try that out first.
it was my first one. then for no apparent reason the password changed and i haven't been able to get into it since. Farkback didn't help. it was lame.
2006-02-07 07:09:15 PM
overslacked I think the idea of remaking yourself is pretty interesting. I do wonder about your need to rename yourself though; you already are the assimilation of all your experiences. "What's in a name?"
Comet reminds me most of toilet scrub, more than anything.
2006-02-07 07:09:30 PM
PacManDreaming Gonna be pulling a sleigh anytime soon?
2006-02-07 07:09:44 PM
cjo Aquatic Bee: i have no real problem with Alex, but he didn't really accomplish much, to be honest. all the things i am proud of were done by Comet
Aquatic Bee: i don't have trouble dealing with my previous lack of accomplishments
You sure about that?
2006-02-07 07:10:07 PM
chizzad Max Power
2006-02-07 07:10:09 PM
Ahhh_Ennui Not to mock you, but what about Donder and Blitzen? Haven't you considered their feelings? Dasher and Dancer are pricks, so who cares about them. Prancer and Vixen... well you know them.
Well, at least Comet will be honored.
(really, couldn't help myself. go for it if it makes you happy. you can always change it back later)
2006-02-07 07:10:09 PM
meanviking on, comet
on, vixen
2006-02-07 07:10:14 PM
overslacked Bill_Wick's_Friend: w/ bleach or without?
*waves fist*
Nicely done, sir.
2006-02-07 07:10:23 PM
toddp10 No_47: when making pointless resubmissions,
?
there was another one?
/also comet sounds kinda....
well you know
2006-02-07 07:10:27 PM
ProducedBy Hmm, my friend spic and his brother span didnt like their names either, but they didnt go change em.
Umm, this is one of those "it sounded like a good idea at the time" kinda things. No reason to change it. MMMkay. Seriously, do you know how embarrassed McDork gets when they call his reservation. Think about it.
2006-02-07 07:10:45 PM
leathermidget It's not Fark, it's:
TotalBlog
Go with your heart. Ignore the sarcasm you will face. but remember, a name is a label and the person who did all these great things, finding his calling in life has always been you, whether you've beel labeled "Alex" or "Comet" and no matter who applied those labels.
2006-02-07 07:11:10 PM
TheOther You're concerned with enviromental issues, but you want to name yourself after a dirty iceball that flies through the solar system, leaving a trail of comet-scum, until it smacks into Earth and causes untold death, suffering and massive extinction? Why don't you just name yourself NuclearWasteDump?
2006-02-07 07:11:18 PM
Ahhh_Ennui Dammit I'm a slow poster. (and unoriginal, apparently)
2006-02-07 07:11:27 PM
SpinStopper My brother hated his name. Said it just wasn't him. So, in order of appearance, he wanted to change it to Fish, Olaf, Hogarth, and a long list of stranger things. When push finally came to shove, he gave up and just changed his last name.
I still call him Fish ;)
2006-02-07 07:11:31 PM
EnderKR wooo, room fulla haters!
Screw it man, I say if it makes you happy, go for it.
/middle name only, freak
//I keed
2006-02-07 07:11:49 PM
Aquatic Bee MoriyaMug
You might want to consider another way of paying tribute to the experience, one which is something a bit less... broadcasted. From the sound of things, it's for deeply personal reasons in the first place... so a deeply personal gesture is likely to be more appropriate.
but it wouldn't be a difficult change at all, since more than half my loved ones already call me Comet anyway. and i doubt they'll ever get used to the idea of calling me Alex. nor would i want them to stop calling me Comet. it just seems like such a natural continuance from that established practice.
2006-02-07 07:11:51 PM
Snowbound On Donner
On Blitzen!
2006-02-07 07:11:52 PM
justlen When I read that he likes to spend time with kids, and now is pondering changing his name, am I drawing the wrong conclusion?
2006-02-07 07:12:00 PM
mungo_fetch whatever comet...
shine on you crazy diamond.
2006-02-07 07:12:02 PM
toddp10 just go buy aquatic bee
people are gonna think you play for the other team no matter what
2006-02-07 07:13:48 PM
cjo justlen: When I read that he likes to spend time with kids,
Exactly. And then I remembered what he said about his dogs.
2006-02-07 07:14:28 PM
justlen cjo: about his dogs
And I bet his microwave is busted.
2006-02-07 07:14:43 PM
No_47 toddp10
LGTOT...
and it does sound kinda... well... you know...
2006-02-07 07:14:49 PM
Inaditch Hey, I knew a guy named Danger. His parents named him that. He was a really cool guy.
If I met you in real life, I might scoff at the name, but who cares? It's not insanely rediculous like the kid who called himself Trout Fishing In America, or the people changing their names to somethingorother.com. Do what makes you feel good.
On the other hand, it doesn't have to be legal to be your name. You can always introduce yourself as Comet and keep the paperwork under your birth name.
2006-02-07 07:14:51 PM
Kitwilly dont do it, hippie.
2006-02-07 07:14:58 PM
toddp10 weeeeeellllll......
ill be the first to "gay comet" in a gis brings up some nsfw images
2006-02-07 07:15:23 PM
meanviking 2006-02-07 07:10:09 PM Ahhh_Ennui
2006-02-07 07:10:09 PM meanviking
finally!
2006-02-07 07:15:45 PM
MoriyaMug Aquatic Bee: but it wouldn't be a difficult change at all, since more than half my loved ones already call me Comet anyway. and i doubt they'll ever get used to the idea of calling me Alex. nor would i want them to stop calling me Comet. it just seems like such a natural continuance from that established practice.
A nickname is one thing. Accepting it as your legal name is another. You have to bear in mind that you're going to be dealing with other people... and if any of these dealings are going to be in the professional world, then you're going to run into some trouble.
2006-02-07 07:16:07 PM
ProducedBy Aquatic Bee: but it wouldn't be a difficult change at all,
Here, hows this.
Mr Boss: Say Comet, could you get those reports ready for the clients? Good, and were going to have Joe and Steve do the presentation, but thanks for all the work"
Hot chick in club: You name is what? Ha Ha Ha ha ha hah hah hah (lots of pointing etc)
At your wedding: Do you Comet take Lorraine to be..
you get the idea. Its just no cool or wise.
2006-02-07 07:16:17 PM
Snowbound Inaditch: Hey, I knew a guy named Danger.
Danger is my middle name.
2006-02-07 07:17:30 PM
justlen ProducedBy: Do you Comet take Lorraine Bob to be..
2006-02-07 07:17:37 PM
Aquatic Bee cjo
You sure about that?
yeah, i'm sure. i have no problem with my previous lack of accomplishments, because it changed. i had a great, life-changing gig for 3+ years, which changed me from an aimless sack of laziness to an ambitious man with goals. good for me.
2006-02-07 07:17:46 PM
meanviking it IS better than donteatkfc.com, or whatever that other hippy changed his name to
2006-02-07 07:18:06 PM
No_47 What about that ning-nong that named his kid "Storm"?
*runs*
2006-02-07 07:18:09 PM
PacManDreaming *not to self: never name yourself after something that rhymes with vomit...unless you just love hearing the same lame old jokes day after day after day after day, ect.*
2006-02-07 07:18:22 PM
DrySocket I know what you mean, everybody knows me as Captain Thunderpants
2006-02-07 07:18:38 PM
TheOther Aquatic Bee: cjo
You sure about that?
yeah, i'm sure. i have no problem with my previous lack of accomplishments, because it changed. i had a great, life-changing gig for 3+ years, which changed me from an aimless sack of laziness to an ambitious man with goals. good for me
Prison is sometimes good that way.
2006-02-07 07:18:46 PM
Phillylou How about Hale Bop?
2006-02-07 07:18:53 PM
mutilato This is what people are meant to do. Define themselves and make strong choices. Be the person they see in their head as the best possible person they can be. You sound like a strong person who has made those decisions. If this name represents the strength and authority of those decisions in your mind, how can anyone deny you the chance to be that person in a way you feel comfortable. I hope you are able to tell little people with problems about it to go launch themselves.
2006-02-07 07:19:07 PM
Thlayli Well, I have a relative whose first and middle names are not James, or anything near that, who's gone by "Jim" for his entire life.
Don't worry about all the legal crap. Just keep using it as a nickname. Don't even mess with the identity crisis thing. Just introduce yourself to people as "Comet" and let 'em find out later that it isn't actually your "legal" name if you give a shiat to let 'em know at all.
2006-02-07 07:19:24 PM
akakii Aquatic Bee: all the self-righteous, individualist indignation i can muster can't make me deny that you're right.
Hey, I was a flaming, commune-dwelling hippie and had a hippie name that would make Comet seem downright mainstream America. While it may have played well in the mountains of Northern California, it didn't work for me when I moved to Manhattan. You might be hanging with people now who like and appreciate Comet, but you're also going to meet people who dismiss you outright for it. Call yourself whatever you want but don't make it legal.
/knew a guy who changed his name from Frank to God Breathing
2006-02-07 07:19:25 PM
SpinStopper No_47: What about that ning-nong that named his kid "Storm"?
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA! I knew that if I waited long enough... ;)
2006-02-07 07:20:03 PM
cjo Aquatic Bee: i had a great, life-changing gig for 3+ years, which changed me from an aimless sack of laziness to an ambitious man with goals. good for me.
Nearly everybody grows up at some point, but they don't feel the need to change their names because of it.
2006-02-07 07:20:54 PM
Aquatic Bee ProducedBy
aside from the fact that my girlfriend already calls me Comet,
what about adding it as a middle name, so i could easily go by Alex at work (as it would be my first name) if my boss cared that much about it?
MoriyaMug
again, the middle name option seems to evaporate those problems.
2006-02-07 07:21:23 PM
mutilato as an aside, my kids have odd names. I have a lot of friends who have odd names. I have never seen it adversely impact anyone. some small minded people will consider it freakish. Those people are busy judging everyone anyway and who gives a fukc what they think anymore.
2006-02-07 07:21:48 PM
karion it was my first one. then for no apparent reason the password changed and i haven't been able to get into it since. Farkback didn't help. it was lame.
I don't think so, Comet .
We don't change passwords, and this user is across the country from you. Not so much you.
2006-02-07 07:21:55 PM
snackwagon Aquatic Bee Cometboy P. has a nice ring to it.. And what fun signing your checks!
2006-02-07 07:22:36 PM
Croooow! Why isn't it your Fark login? That would seem to be an easier step than a legal name change. Which is stupid.
2006-02-07 07:22:57 PM
leperboy69 Comet is an awesome name. You seem perfectly happy with the decision, so good on ya.
2006-02-07 07:23:09 PM
Dalton Voss Middle name, for sure.
2006-02-07 07:24:00 PM
mybluemake What's the problem you assholes? My name is really Pinecone.
2006-02-07 07:24:02 PM
feistyALgal I don't understand why you want a bunch of strangers weighing in on a life-decision.
If you go by Comet and want to legally change your name, the farking do it and be decisive.
My Dad's name was Tex (nickname)... he had a real name, but I never knew it until I was in elementary school. Everyone calling him Tex was good enough for him.
If you feel the need to legally be Comet, then do it for cripes sakes. Yeeeeeeeeesh! You're making your life sound like one big drama, and this name change just one of the dramatic schtuffs that are going on in it. How funny.
2006-02-07 07:25:31 PM
Aquatic Bee cjo
Nearly everybody grows up at some point, but they don't feel the need to change their names because of it.
but wouldn't we know more about eachother if we all did? PS: remember, i'm a hippie.
karion
I don't think so, Comet .
We don't change passwords, and this user is across the country from you. Not so much you.
technically it was Cometboy. the password i had suddenly stopped working. i don't know why. i'll try it again right now.
2006-02-07 07:25:39 PM
toddp10 2006-02-07 07:26:05 PM
sokeri are you hot? has this been covered? because hot guys can get away with any name.
also, you're in Eugene, anything goes, man...
do what makes you happy, fark everyone else.
2006-02-07 07:26:24 PM
ProducedBy Aquatic Bee: aside from the fact that my girlfriend already calls me Comet,
what about adding it as a middle name, so i could easily go by Alex at work (as it would be my first name) if my boss cared that much about it
Its not that, look Alex is your name, ok, no biggie. Comet is what people call you who know you. perfect. Why would having mail addressed to Comet make life better or more fullfilling? Seems like it will just make people take you less seriously, and it just seems kinda silly. But hey, this is America, so go forth and do what ye shall do
2006-02-07 07:27:03 PM
toddp10 that was mean
sorry comet
2006-02-07 07:27:36 PM
Bill_Wick's_Friend Comet
It makes your mouth turn green
Comet
It tasted like gasoline
Comet
It makes ya vomit
So try some Comet
And vomit
Today.
/songs i remember from summer camp
2006-02-07 07:27:40 PM
ProducedBy karion: We don't change passwords, and this user is across the country from you. Not so much you.
Hey now! Ownage...
2006-02-07 07:28:22 PM
Arise Chicken I toddp10.
BWAHAHAHA!
2006-02-07 07:28:42 PM
snackwagon toddp10 that was mean
Had me gigglin'
2006-02-07 07:29:01 PM
cjo sokeri: are you hot?
jorie?
2006-02-07 07:29:09 PM
Arise Chicken I meant that I *heart* toddp10.
2006-02-07 07:30:21 PM
Aquatic Bee karion:
yeah, password still don't work. profile is still up. no idea.
toddp10
i expected no less. damn, those teeth though!
2006-02-07 07:31:05 PM
sokeri my grampa was known as Paul. as an adult, I learned his name was Ross. when he died we found that his first and last name were actually totally different - I don't even remember what they were now.
2006-02-07 07:31:34 PM
cjo Change your name to Aquatic Bee then.
2006-02-07 07:32:36 PM
Clowny summary of thread:
people: Comet would be a bad first name!
comet dude: what about a middle name?
people: Comet would be a bad first name!
comet dude: what about a middle name?
somebody: *fart*
other guy: good idea!
sokeri: ooh do me comet!
2006-02-07 07:33:06 PM
flubby toddp10, I haven't laughed that hard in weeks. Thanks.
\If it makes you happy, change your name, Cometdude.
2006-02-07 07:33:38 PM
Snowbound My name is not the name I would have chosen for myself. But my parents chose it. That's what they get to do as parents. Seems it would be pretty disrespectful to them if I were to change it.
Also, I've always thought that people who went and changed their name must be very dissatisfied with themselves or otherwise insecure... that they wanted to change who they were so much that they went for one of the very most basic things- the name they first identified themself with.
Just my opinion, Moonbeam.
2006-02-07 07:33:55 PM
Aquatic Bee cjo : Change your name to Aquatic Bee then.
now you're reaching. Aquatic Bee is more or less a meaningless phrase.
2006-02-07 07:34:57 PM
Aquatic Bee Clowny
that looks about right.
*fart*
2006-02-07 07:35:35 PM
Aquatic Bee Snowbound didn't read my Boobies.
2006-02-07 07:35:48 PM
Cake Hunter This is in no way reflective of your situation, Aquatic Bee, but for a long time there I tried to get everyone I knew to call me "The Big Ragu." I failed.
Stupid friends.
2006-02-07 07:36:29 PM
Aquatic Bee okay, looks like the thread's over. thanks to all who participated. i crown toddp10 and sokeri the winners!
and yeah, i'm teh hawt.
2006-02-07 07:36:34 PM
Croooow! Aquatic Bee: now you're reaching. Aquatic Bee is more or less a meaningless phrase.
And Comet is the name of a reindeer!
2006-02-07 07:37:43 PM
sokeri Aquatic Bee
now you're reaching. Aquatic Bee is more or less a meaningless phrase.
but see, it's funny because he's suggesting that since you can't have the Fark name you want to change your legal name to, you can change your legal name to your Fark name!!
2006-02-07 07:37:48 PM
Aquatic Bee Croooow!
among other things...
2006-02-07 07:38:38 PM
sokeri I'm a winnar!! woo hoo!! take that losers!
2006-02-07 07:40:25 PM
toddp10 sokeri: I'm a winnar!! woo hoo!! take that losers!
hey!
im a winnar too!
2006-02-07 07:41:23 PM
Aquatic Bee calm down you two. remember, you're only winners to some creep named Comet.
2006-02-07 07:42:10 PM
Aquatic Bee Atvar wins too.
2006-02-07 07:45:41 PM
justlen sokeri: I'm a winnar!!
Oh so now this is the Special Olympics?
2006-02-07 07:47:36 PM
sokeri justlen
Oh so now this is the Special Olympics?
hey now!
2006-02-07 07:49:59 PM
le mew Impossible to say unless/until I know you.
If you plan on becoming a Supreme Court justice, probably not. Otherwise, what the hell, if that's what everyone calls you anyway you might as well use it.
Just don't do like some people and spaz out if someone calls you Alex. There are few legal behaviors that make me want to kick someone in the teeth, but that sort of thing is one of them. Right near the top of the list, even.
2006-02-07 07:51:49 PM
Aquatic Bee le mew
yeah, whenever i tell someone about the change i make sur they know they don't need to feel crappy if they slip up. no reason for them to have to feel bad when i'm making them change, yaknow?
2006-02-07 07:52:33 PM
Anti_Freak_Machine YESS This is PERFECT!
I've been writing "Comet" on walls since I was like 11!!
2006-02-07 07:53:30 PM
le mew Well....to me it seems that you can't really love the you that you are now unless you also love the you that you used to be. That's not easy sometimes, but it is important. Just don't be hating on Alex, that's all I'm saying.
2006-02-07 07:55:02 PM
Croooow! le mew: you can't really love the you that you are now unless you also love the you that you used to be
Wow. Thats really good advice.
2006-02-07 07:55:37 PM
EnderKR All I gotta say is, there goes the thread asking advice on MY name change...man, Farkers can be kinda heartless. And they fart a lot.
2006-02-07 07:57:13 PM
Arise Chicken And le mew scores for the win.
2006-02-07 07:57:42 PM
Karmacidal This thread rocks. I haven't laughed this hard in a long time.
Seriously though, I have a friend who did that camp thing and took on the name Batman. It stuck. Everyone I know calls this guy Batman 20 years after the fact. He says it helps when the phone rings and someone asks for him by his Christian name. 9 times outta 10 its bill collectors. Do you really want bill collectors calling you Comet? Or the guy at the bank? Or your doctor? Or even the pizza guy?
2006-02-07 07:58:11 PM
Croooow! EnderKR
there goes the thread asking advice on MY name change
Were you going to change it to Dasher or Blitzen?
2006-02-07 07:58:47 PM
Croooow! ...and /i
2006-02-07 07:59:10 PM
ThisIsGina I'm changing my last name to Hammer.
Only because it's the name I was born with. I kept my ex's last name until my kids were grown so they wouldn't have to deal with that confusion.
/Hammer's pretty cool, huh?
2006-02-07 08:03:27 PM
justlen ThisIsGina: Hammer's pretty cool, huh
Especially if you're a dominatrix.
2006-02-07 08:03:54 PM
le mew Hammer's pretty cool, huh?
It's too legit to quit.
/yes
2006-02-07 08:05:47 PM
ThisIsGina BTW, Comet would be just fine as a nick name. But don't make it legal.
I'm guessing you're in your teens or very early 20s.
:)
2006-02-07 08:07:48 PM
Croooow! ThisIsGina
I kept my ex's last name until my kids were grown so they wouldn't have to deal with that confusion.
Thats very cool. My mom did that until my brother and I were grown and then changed back to her maiden name.