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May 20, 2006 12:31

The first step is admitting you have a problem.

Hello. My name is Ashlea.............

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cleverusername2 May 20 2006, 18:33:28 UTC
Hi, Ashlea. What's your problem?

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comfy_cozy May 20 2006, 19:20:29 UTC
I have a drinking problem....and not the "Hey I'm 22" kind.....the kind where I want and need alcohol all the time. I'm tired of the way I feel after I've been drinking. I think I was addicted to the way it made me feel. But after drinking till I passed out last night and waking up feeling like shit this morning...it made me think a lot because not only did I feel like shit but I cant remember anything. I blacked out and didnt even know it. Another thing is I know the way I act when I'm drunk and I dont like it...and no one else either. I'm just another one of those drunks who everyone points and laughs at. So yeah.

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d0minique May 20 2006, 23:01:58 UTC
When you keep doing it even though you know it makes feel like shit physically/mentally/emotionally, it's definitely a problem. Blackouts are damn spooky, also-- it's like finding out something wore your skin and did all these weird/stupid/embarassing/dangerous things that you would never have done had you been in full possession of yourself.

Sometimes it helps to remove yourself from the places or people you end up drinking around, but until you take a deep, fearless look inside and figure out what drives you to drink, isolating yourself from people or situations is just a temporary solution..

take care of yourself, hun... *hugs*

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comfy_cozy May 21 2006, 13:38:23 UTC
A small problem with isolating myself is I dont have any friends here except the ones at M-Night. Thats what sucks. I have been to AA meetings before when I was younger b/c I had a problem then. But the question for me is Why Now?? Why After all this time am I going through it AGAIN?!?!

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trampoline_girl May 20 2006, 20:46:10 UTC
If you need anything let me know. I'm a good listener. (surprising considering I talk all the time, but it is true).

*hugs*

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comfy_cozy May 21 2006, 13:40:29 UTC
LOL!
Whats funny is the ones who talk the most are usually the best listeners!

Thanx! :) *hugs*

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sliceofpisces May 21 2006, 17:46:08 UTC
Yugh... sorry to hear things are where they are with that right now. I went through a phase when I was 23 where I drank at home, every day, by myself... sometimes before noon I was already drunk... what a weird and unsatisfying period that was.

Maybe next week at MNight we should all drink Coca-cola, and just eat more...
Mmmmmmmmmm....FAJITAS!!!

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comfy_cozy May 22 2006, 03:50:44 UTC
Its not exactly a period I'm going through. I've been through it before and thought everything was okay and I would never do it again....well I was wrong. I did happen again....just not as bad. I think that I'm a strong person and I can get through this all by myself this time. I will still attend M-Night and everything....but yeah I will only be drinking something....Non Alcoholic.

And yes....FOOD....now thats one thing I can handle. lol

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domnace9 May 22 2006, 14:32:50 UTC
I admire you for admitting that. Just know that I care about you. I'm here for support.

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comfy_cozy May 22 2006, 14:34:22 UTC
Just bring able to talk about it and not have everyone look down on me or think less of me is a really big help.

Thanx so much! :)
*Hugs*

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domnace9 May 22 2006, 15:37:04 UTC
Hey, we all have our problems that we have to deal with at some time in our lives. I would never begin to judge you. Friends are here for support and I know that we've never met in person but I do feel like you'd be there for me as well.

Let me know if there is anything that I can do. I'll email you my cell number if you ever just want to talk.

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martinhesselius May 22 2006, 15:20:15 UTC

*Hug*
Much good luck.

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comfy_cozy May 22 2006, 15:21:57 UTC
Thank you :)
*hugs*

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