I used to have a friend who was notorious for her inappropriate behavior.
Last year, at another friend's birthday party, her behavior was beyond the pale. I called her a week later and told her that her behavior had been egregious, and that I didn't want to be her friend anymore.
This is a woman who loses friends like gum wrappers, and I still had to say it blatantly.
it is, but if you're tried the fade out, and it hasn't worked, then your only other options are to just stop talking to the person completely; remove them from your LJ, Facebook and whatever else. Don't respond to emails, don't respond to calls or texts. The problem with that is that, sooner or later, you're gonna see them, and then it's four times harder.
Do you have any mutual friends that can talk to them on your behalf?
Sadly there really isn't anyone I can get to talk to them for me. I did very nearly get rid of them once but then somehow they snuck back in. I guess I should just be a man and suck it up and say something to them. Maybe I could say you totally freak me out and are a little scary and I don't trust you. Also you are ugly and no one likes you.
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Last year, at another friend's birthday party, her behavior was beyond the pale. I called her a week later and told her that her behavior had been egregious, and that I didn't want to be her friend anymore.
This is a woman who loses friends like gum wrappers, and I still had to say it blatantly.
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unless it's me, in which case, fuck you :p
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Do you have any mutual friends that can talk to them on your behalf?
Thank god it's not me! :p
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Or maiming them a lot and walking away quickly>
Or bludgeoning them into a coma and throwing a tarp over them?
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