lots to think about

[confusedgnome]

i talked to her for a little bit the other day, i don't know if there's anything to salvage from all this. I love her, but how can you be with someone you can't trust? I don't know what i want to do, i don't know if i can walk away from all this and just move on, maybe i should give it a chance. Which is better? Which is easier? Still so much to

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[blindcrysania]

I won't post anything mean hun, I know you don't need that right now. My honest opinion though is that if somebody will cheat once, (or in this case I suppose twice, which somewhat proves my point in itself) they will do it again, given the chance. As the old saying goes, "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me." That kind of applies here. She's proven herself untrustworthy twice now. If I were you, I wouldn't let her fool me a third time. You've let this kind of behavior go once already, and she didn't learn. To let it go again would be in a way telling her that it's ok to act this way, when really it's not ok and it's hurting the wonderful person that you are. I know it's hard to let go of all that you had, but in my opinion it's that time. That's just my opinion, ultimately it's your decision, and I'll support whatever you choose. I just think you deserve better then this. Whatever you decide, think about it. Don't let your feelings make the decision for you. You have a good brain, so let it help in

[engeliz82]

i realize that you love her, but she has not proved herself worthy of your love. is this what you really want?