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Apr 12, 2010 03:10

Many of my married friends have been telling me that the drama I have been dealing with is extremely uncommon. So I posed them a question: if I wanted them (the wife) to spend the night at my place to marathon scary movies/anime/whatever, would they? Many of them have done so in the past before marriage, so is it the same now ( Read more... )

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onex April 12 2010, 16:51:10 UTC

You realize, of course, I had that kind of faith with Morgan, and she went over there and you boned her.

Your argument assumes that YOU aren't an asshole who's looking to prey on married women who might not even BE unhappy until you point out that the guys don't buy them shoes.

But, you want irony? I'd trust Olivia to go over with you. But that's 95% because I know she won't sleep around on me, and 5% I would murder you.

cordre April 12 2010, 18:32:05 UTC

I was actually going to use Woman as an example of someone that could come over and nobody would suspect things.

The older I get, the more likely the girls I meet are going to be married. And the fact that MOST people aren't happy with their marriage has absolutely nothing to do with me. If anything, it's the most annoying thing I have to deal with.

But yeah, Morgaon does eff up a lot of my defenses...but it isn't like I was the first time she'd been unfaithful either. I blame Mer. She didn't warn me.

amara243 April 13 2010, 00:54:14 UTC

..Wait what?

amara243 April 13 2010, 00:52:21 UTC

It is the "people" thing though. You and I both know that at this point, anything between us besides friendship would probably be best described as "icky", but how many people would flip out if I stayed over at your place? And even though Fhen trusts me, I'm sure it'd make him uncomfortable, just because it's not really a proper thing to do. For those reasons I'm not really interested in doing it. It'd just cause too much drama.

cordre April 13 2010, 02:45:48 UTC

It's still dumb that people would flip out. Why care? I just don't get it. Nobody I know flipped out when I stayed over with you.

amara243 April 13 2010, 04:57:19 UTC

Yeah, well, I have more than one room :P

cordre April 13 2010, 10:55:47 UTC

Fair enough~

A few issues. dragonbait1 April 13 2010, 17:04:00 UTC

1. yes, my wife could go anywhere she likes and the only fear I have would be for her safety, not her fidelity. I can go places too. But we're a special case as neither of us have long elaborate dating histories and we're not inclined to go out.

2. The "none of them mind if their Husbands come over..." is a strawman. We all know that you're not going to make a move on a guy, any guy. And honestly, if they're married, the guys are likely to be pretty straight. As if you could take the husbands to an all night stripclub/hotel in Vegas... I'll bet the answers are different.

3. You like to put all of the "Wrong" of cheating on the cheater (and to a lesser extent their relationship). LEGALLY a person who has sex with a married person is committing the intentional tort of interfering in a contractual relationship. Yes, this means you could be sued. The LAW says that cheating with someone is wrong. This doesn't apply to marriages where the contract has a clause allowing extramarital affairs (Damn few).

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