pressure.

[core9]

ugh. i'm wondering if you other ladies been thinking about babies? i know i'm not ready, just in case you were wondering! i have no plans of having one in the next 2 years, but the idea of it doesn't seem so bad to me lately. the only thing is that i've been feeling the PRESSURE lately...seriously. sometimes i think i can feel daniel's 80

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[aislinfey]

my biological clock keeps me up some nights with all it's ticking.

DisneyLand was a sweet torture with all the little ones running about.

Dink however, made me promise not to steal any.

Grrr

[core9]

haha, yeah, i like it when little kids run into me, because they're oblivious to us tallies and see our legs like trees or something.

[core9]

crazy zookeeper lady!!!!

[goth_kitty]

i'd like to have three...alway thinking about how cool it would be to have one, then that thought dissipates after a few minutes.

i'm not ready to have kids in my life for another couple years.

i get the pressure of marriage...not kids too much. my mom seems to think i'll never want kids.

[core9]

haha, yeah, it was actually kinda cool being an only child. except it was a bit lonely and i always longed for a sibling. i had lots of little cousins to play with though, so it was nice growing up at family gatherings. the funny thing is that, i'm the oldest cousin, but i'm the only one, out of the girls over 18 that hasn't had a kid!

i dunno how many i realistically want yet, depends where i am financially i think.

hah! yeah, well we first got the pressure for marriage when we first moved in together. oh boy! daniel's grandparent's are pretty old fashioned! but, they haven't really bugged us about that in a long time though. i think we're waiting until we have full-time jobs and get out of school.

[goth_kitty]

i'm surprised my parents aren't more frustrated with the fact i haven't had kids yet because my brother is over 40 and has never settled down, i had an autistic sister so she never had kids, and then me well i'm taking my time and they're convinced i'll never have them.

[nicolascaesar]

ever since sarah and i got married we felt the pressure. thank goodness for chuck jarman's wedding present:
http://www.bumpinthenightproductions.com/itsalive.html
now they stopped asking :>

[core9]

ahahahahah!

[nicolascaesar]

at the party afterwards we kept harrassing the old folks saying "here's your grandkid!"

[fayf]

the minute nik and i even talked about getting married people were asking us if i was pregnant. and if i wasn't pregnant yet, they assumed i was going to be very soon. i can't tell you how many times i've been asked, "so when's the baby coming?!" i plan on waiting until i am in my 30s, as my 20s are reserved for ME time. besides, my little brother was recently made a daddy, so i get all my baby action with my cute niece!

[core9]

oh man! i can imagine all that pressure!!

yeah, there are so many little ones around me sometimes that i don't mind it so much. but, i do look forward to having my own little spawn that is half me and daniel. :)

[fayf]

your new title will be: rimma - the babysitter