Comments | corinaland: I'm sick

corinaland

I'm sick

Jul 08, 2004 09:03

...in a lot of ways, really, but most tangibly, my throat is killing me, my ears feel off, and my neck feels like it's in a vise. Yet, I cancelled my doctor's appointment yesterday after leaving work before 11:00 a.m. I spent the morning laying poolside and after my sunbath, got some pretty shocking news from someone close to me, so I cancelled ( Read more... )

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who's that anonymous July 8 2004, 23:31:02 UTC

whos' trying to hook up with you,i've been keeping up with your journals and you make very little sence, one day your at the pool happy as one can be, then the next your swimming in a sea of hardening shit (btw if thats original let me know your name so I can quote you on it, it's good) anyway so who's getting you down, or should i ask how many of them are there, fuck just give me the people who are brining you up to save time. but it sounds like you have real friends and need to focus on them, you leave boyfriends behind for a reason, friendships seldom occur. think about it, how many friends did you have that turned into boyfriends.... now think about how many bf's you just met and started loving or liking... with no basis of friendship at all. go with your friends they are there for a reason, leave the boyfriends, they are gone for a reason. keep up the good work

Re: who's that corinaland July 9 2004, 16:17:09 UTC

I'm not naming specific ppl on my lj. I believe I covered that in my first post. Suffice it so say, I've recently been disappointed at the piranha-like nature of some exes when I'm down, "You should just fuck me" was thrown out recently, for example.

The sea of hardening shit comment is original, btw. Hold the applause, hold the applause (while simultaneously bowing)...

The counter-point to "friendships seldom occur" from exes is true, but those that have been forged are some of my most important relationships, and I feel like someone you're romantically involved with will know you in a way that a friend never will.

Without a doubt, 9 of the 10 ppl I have the best time with I've hooked up with. Maybe it's because they know me, I know them, and we are familiar with what makes both of us happy. Sure, that can be true of friends, but if they're so great, and you're attracted to them, why not get it on? Then, they're an ex. Which is where I stand.

And, ummmm, who are you?

true enough anonymous July 9 2004, 17:40:19 UTC

you're lucky that you have gotten your nine out of ten times. Most people I know, including me, get caught in the "friend zone". It's a curse like none other. you said "if they're so great, and you're attracted to them, why not get it on?" Answer: cause they don't want to get it on with you. It is like eating the finest foods and not being able to taste one bite. It's so frustrating that you have everything on face value, the foods there, it looks and smells great, but you can't obtain the true value of the food that would make you so happy. But you must be lucky (or hot) because your friends that you want to hook up with, want you as well, must be nice... so go with that, I'll just live vicariously through you ( ... )