Comments | coterielove: idealistic. (stolen)

coterielove

idealistic. (stolen)

Apr 24, 2006 17:55

Ask for advice or post a question/thought/secret/confession/anything here. Anonymous or not.

I will reply to everything, no matter what it is.
(But do not criticize me or be rude, it will just be deleted, making it pointless and a waste of time.)

Comments 16

anonymous April 25 2006, 01:06:59 UTC

can you make me happy flynn magin

coterielove April 25 2006, 01:35:17 UTC

I really, and honestly wish that I could. I think that you are one of the most incredible people I have ever spoken to in my entire lifetime. Not only are you beautiful and confident and outspoken, but you are so caring. I'm not sure if he doesn't see that, or if he just isn't ready to deal with it right now. Either way, everything happens for a reason, and I predict that he will pull his head out sooner than later. I know how much you love him, and I wish that I could shake some sense into him for you.

I love you.

anonymous April 25 2006, 01:08:45 UTC

Everytime i get into a relationship with someone, someone this time i really care about more than anything, i just close up. I get overwhelmed with the expectations i percieve that go along with a relationship. I can't enjoy her or myself, i can't be active in the relationship. I hate it. I want to loosen up, i know that's what i have to do but there's something blocking it...

coterielove April 25 2006, 01:40:03 UTC

Everyone has their expectations and qualifications towards relationships, and thats completely normal. I think that if you really care about this girl, more than anything, you will sooner or later let down your guard and let her in. I know from experience what its like to care about someone but be scared to fall in love, or be scared that maybe it will turn out wrong and your expectations won't be met. But that is what life is about, life is about letting your guard down and enjoying yourself. Whether or not everything works out in the end, you have to look at the good qualities of what was there and take that in, really take it in.

I hope everything works out for you.

anonymous April 25 2006, 01:22:44 UTC

I think you are a wonderful person. I hate that someone like you is being taken advantage of in the 'relationship' that you are caught in. You would be so much better off if you found another, but your dedication and loyalness stays, and that makes you larger than life.

I respect you to rediculous amounts, and I never tell you that, but I think it all the time.

coterielove April 25 2006, 06:37:23 UTC

I really wish that I didn't have a good feeling at who this is, because I think you are somewhat in the same boat as me. If my hunch is right, that is ( ... )

alkalineromance April 25 2006, 02:50:04 UTC

I never comment on your journal, but I read it all the time. It's one of those journals on my friends list that I look forward to reading. We are both in the same boat with our fathers, and I mean the exact same. When you update about it, I feel I can relate so much to it, and it helps me.

coterielove April 25 2006, 06:28:08 UTC

I'm glad to know that someone appreciates my journal and actually reads its! I'm sorry that your father is the way that mine is, it's hard, really hard. But sometimes you just have to deal with things that are hard in life. :/

anonymous April 25 2006, 03:02:00 UTC

i would give anything to be 75 lbs. again
seriously

that is all i want

coterielove April 25 2006, 06:29:47 UTC

I'm very sorry that you want that so badly, because that is so unhealthy. Especially if you are in your teens, or older. In the nicest way possible, maybe it has something to do with the way you look at yourself and your body. You could get help with that image issue. I'm sure you're beautiful the way you are :)