have you talked to him about this stuff?? i know it's really hard to approach a subject like this, but i think the best way to figure all of it out would be to sit down and talk to him about it. ask him what he really wants in the future. that way you'll know wether or not he's worth holding on to through all of this. i dunno, you're probably already talked about it, but oh well.
on a happy note - it might snow today!!!
umm when are you going to be home from jersey?? give me an address that i can send a christmas card to.
okey well i already kind of talked to him about it yesterday and we just kept going around in circles oy this is so confusing anyways i will give you my new jersey address if you want or you can just use my moms house which i will be back to on December 20thish ill give you that one in an im too i feel weird putting my address down on here lol
im still going to go to school and get my degree i just dont see why you cant go to school get your degree all the while planning your future i know plenty of people who are married and still going to college
and im not saying i want to get married right now i just want to know that it isnt an impossibility with him thats all
i totally understand. it's probably really hard for him to figure out what he wants right now...because he wants to be with you and make you happy, but he proably also wants to party like you said. and im sure if he's thinking the latter, he doesn't want to break your heart and make you upset by telling you. i don't know...i havent had to deal with this, but i hope everything works out for the best! yeah gimme whichever, maybe i'll send one to both. haha. i was hesitant at first about going to school while being married, because i always thought that right after i get married i would want to start my family. however, i can hold off a few more years for kids. it'll be hard, but i can do it.
you people are nuts!!! we're not even 21 yet and y'all already want to be 35!!!!!!!!!! We should be gettin into trouble and havin nights we can't remember...i'm not sayin i'm any better cause all i do is work and school...but common we need to start actin like people about to turn LEGAL!!!!!!
okie love you...and DAMNIT we need to hang out before you leave!!! I think Chrissy's comin out tomorrow so you need to play with us!!!!
love ya again...plus i decided that you are now FRAN and i'm VAL
see i kinda get where luke is comin from though cuz i feel the same way i want to make sure i have a good job and live my 20s out and then liek 27 or 28 get married but maybe he is just unsure of things because hes unsure of his future and he wants to support u, but how could he support his wife when he dosent have a job that makes liek 40 50 grand a year. in a guys perspective its very frustrating because you want to make ur significant other happy and take care of her u kno. i am sure things will work out for ya though
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i dunno, you're probably already talked about it, but oh well.
on a happy note - it might snow today!!!
umm when are you going to be home from jersey?? give me an address that i can send a christmas card to.
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i already kind of talked to him about it yesterday and we just kept going around in circles
oy
this is so confusing
anyways
i will give you my new jersey address if you want
or you can just use my moms house which i will be back to on December 20thish
ill give you that one in an im too
i feel weird putting my address down on here lol
thanks:)
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i just dont see why you cant go to school
get your degree
all the while planning your future
i know plenty of people who are married and still going to college
and im not saying i want to get married right now
i just want to know that it isnt an impossibility with him thats all
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i don't know...i havent had to deal with this, but i hope everything works out for the best! yeah gimme whichever, maybe i'll send one to both. haha.
i was hesitant at first about going to school while being married, because i always thought that right after i get married i would want to start my family. however, i can hold off a few more years for kids. it'll be hard, but i can do it.
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okie love you...and DAMNIT we need to hang out before you leave!!!
I think Chrissy's comin out tomorrow so you need to play with us!!!!
love ya again...plus i decided that you are now FRAN and i'm VAL
okie now i'm gone
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CALL me and I will play with you for sure
Love you too!!
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thanks :)
hey did you guys get a lot of snow last night?
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