I think you're just crazy; then again everyone is different. I'm fine in a relationship or not being in one. I love Lauren, she's an amazing person and an awesome friend, but if I were to break up with her I'd be completely fine too.
Peolpe claim to be depressed but most don't even realize how easy they have it. I don't see why everyone is so miserable lately, there's no reason to be....Relationships aren't distractions, they're simply a positive focus. And even if that focus is taken away, there's still pleanty to be happy about.
Everything is reletive though, that you should already understand. Asking how it "really feels" is a bit broad, everyone has different emotions and different feelings due to their experiences. Some people need to be in a relationship because they feel it is like a saftey net; where all else fails in the world, they know that someone will be there for them. It depends on your level of independence and security too. If you're used to a certain thing, such has having and relying on boyfriends, then it'll be
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i see your wheels are turning as always. i want to fight back but i think you're pretty right. I dont like how you condoned loved but of course you did. Its you we're talking about here. Maybe we cant love each other because we're all so young. Look at the years of confidence you just made me completely defy with one comment in a difficult time. I dont know if I want to doubt what I always believed but you say it so plainly.. and I see the point you're trying to make.
Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being "in love" which any of us can convince ourselves we are.
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Peolpe claim to be depressed but most don't even realize how easy they have it. I don't see why everyone is so miserable lately, there's no reason to be....Relationships aren't distractions, they're simply a positive focus. And even if that focus is taken away, there's still pleanty to be happy about.
Everything is reletive though, that you should already understand. Asking how it "really feels" is a bit broad, everyone has different emotions and different feelings due to their experiences. Some people need to be in a relationship because they feel it is like a saftey net; where all else fails in the world, they know that someone will be there for them. It depends on your level of independence and security too. If you're used to a certain thing, such has having and relying on boyfriends, then it'll be ( ... )
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i want to fight back but i think you're pretty right. I dont like how you condoned loved but of course you did. Its you we're talking about here. Maybe we cant love each other because we're all so young. Look at the years of confidence you just made me completely defy with one comment in a difficult time.
I dont know if I want to doubt what I always believed but you say it so plainly.. and I see the point you're trying to make.
I guess I'll have to mull this one over.
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