so depressing

[crashtestkitty]

I hate when people *ahem* Franklyn especially prove just how easily replaceable I am. It's like all the time and effort I put in doesn't count for anything once someone "new and exciting" enters the picture. It's just really depressing how disposable I am. It's instances like this when I think "why bother?" What's the point of making friends and

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[loving_martinis]

I've been there, Honey. I understand. Makes you feel like you aren't special, but ya know what? That's not true! Trust me, my last bf Eric made me feel like crap when I met the gf after me while she rang me up at Best Buy with my necklace on (and she had rang him & I up a few times). I really felt like crap, was hysterical cry most the evening, and had to get my drink on. I felt Was it a lie when he said he loved me? That I was special?

I came to realize that some people are used to being in a relationship and they'll rush into a new one. I've rushed into relationships. Guess what, it doesn't WORK. It makes it sad for him that he's doing this while you're being smart and going through the healing process without being on the rebound.

I applaud you.

[crashtestkitty]

aww, thanks Jodi, that really makes me feel better. It's exactly how I'm feeling. Like our 5.5 yrs together meant nothing now that she's in the picture. It's dumb too because it's not that I want to be with him, because I know it's not right, but the fact that he's already filling my void really hurts. HAHA, it is SOO hard to not go out and get the first rebound guy available, but I know it's better this way in the long run. Breakups suck :P But, I have to admit it's nice knowing people like you who have suffered through heartache only to move on and find someone better who makes them happy. :)

[loving_martinis]

The rebound guys that were just "friends with benefits" or "guy I was dating but not seriously" was fun in the beginning, but it gets old fast & you wind up feeling used. And I completely understand but like I said before, you ARE special, he's not be smart & it probably won't work out between him & her.

My friend Will last year went through a bad break up from a 7 yr relationship AND they were engaged, lived together, she helped him start his business but she broke up with him & what not. He met someone around Dec, rushed into things with her where the new girl was telling him "I love you" within a week of meeting, told him to be careful, not to rush, and darn if he didn't tell Frank that he's thinking of breaking up with her b/c they're too different. That was just a side story lol