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[crayzee_insane]

I had a wonderful and long conversation with a friend of mine over MSN yesterday and I want everyone's opinion on it:

How can you tell if a girl is using a guy for sex or vice verca?It doesn't even have to be sex itself, just any sort of sexual amusement. I'm curious to what everyone may say about it. As the conversation got longer, there were

Comments

[funkay_junk]

mmm I was just waiting for a question like this to come up *smiles eagerly* haha...well I think I can say I've had enough "flings" to know the answer to this. With me, I'm always straight up with the guy, call me a whore, skank, slut, WHATEVER. I've been hurt too many times to even bother with relationships anymore. But I *ALWAYS* let the guy know, "you know we're not gonna have an official relationship right?" I'm blunt. Same goes for the guy, If the girl he fucks around with is naive and isn't smart enuff to know that she is being used, she'll see the signs. If he only calls her up to get together to do shit, then of course he's using her. If they don't have an offical relationship, where they don't have actual deep conversations, then it's obvious that either the guy or the girl are using eachother. But that's just my opinion. I've been down that road many times lol *rolls eyes* ..even the "relationship" I'm kinda having now.. you know..we strictly stated, "NO STRINGS ATTACHED" n i love it because in the end, no one gets hurt ..

[brakemyhart]

woah...i dont think youre a "whore, skank, slut, whatever.." ha actually, after reading this, ive got a lot of respect for you for being able to tell a guy exactly what kind of relationship you do or dont want. good job.

[brakemyhart]

i think weve had this conversation before.
if the guy/girl is unable to sit and have a long conversation with you without touching you, then they are using you, most definitely.
if you dont want someone to touch you, and they continue doing it, they are using you, most definitely.
if they do not seem emotionally attatched to you in many ways and yet they are still all over you, then they are using you.

says the girl thats been used.