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[crayzeetiger]

So tomorrow is our 3rd month together. It makes me nervous. I am really scared, because he's the first boy I've really adored in a while, and I keep getting advice from my mom that it could end, and she doesn't want to see me in tears again. It's not going to end soon I don't think, but still, I'm nervous. I dont want to see myself like that again

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[frosted_lilac_6]

My best advice would be not to stress, to enjoy the time you are spending with him and not think about how much it would hurt for it to end. Stay optimistic, it's bound to work out with someone someday, so why not him? And even if it doesn't, you've grown and matured since the last time you went through a hard breakup, which means that you are incredibly likely to handle it better a second time around. I think you will be just fine. Just maintain the other parts of your life that don't have to do with him and you'll never really have to worry about it. He's not the center of your universe, just a very welcome addition to it. Love you Lily!

[jeslynn360]

1) You guys are happy together. Right now. Who really cares about tomorrow?
2) Moms jobs are to try to make sure that you don't get hurt. But the fact is, if you live your life based completely on the advice of your mother (even if they are sometimes right), you'll never experience anything for yourself and will most likely end up resenting your mom for "limiting your life". Even though oftentimes, moms have really good advice.
3) I feel like there should be 3 points here. so here's a third one. I LOVE YOU LILY!!!!!