not to stick my nose in anyones business.. but has your brother been spoken to, or offered help? because i've been in his place, almost caused my parents to divorce, caused my sister not to talk to me for months, and was a total ass to everyone. but, inside all i needed was someone to listen.
but, i'm going through that now. my sister's kinda going through that. and it's frustrating watching someone make the same mistakes i did, only she refuses to talk, or get help.
That'd be nice, but I honestly have no idea what's wrong with him. It all started when my parents made him go to this catholic school that I go to. And it was the best decision and best place for him, but he didn't want to leave his friends and started bitching about it. That's when it all began. He started demanding things in return for going to school. Which is ridiculous. And my mom was actually like if me and your father get divorced it's going to be all because of your brother, because your father takes his side and doesn't punish him when it needs to be done. It's seriously ripping us right the fuck apart. And my parents called the doctor and everything and they were going to send him to like a mental institution, well not a mental institution but something like that, I'm not really quite sure. Either that or a shrink. But I'm almost positive he'd refuse to go.
why can't he just go back to regular school if it'd make him happy? i mean.. if i were a parent, and a kid was about to tear apart my marriage.. i'd let the kid go back to his old school. i mean.. if i were forced to go to a new school, and leave my parents.. i'd raise hell too.
but he would of gotten into drugs and bad shit if he went there, NO DOUBT about it. That's the main reason, it's such a bad school and all his friends deal. My parents didn't like the people he hung around with. And wanted to set him on a better path. Now they are debating about sending him back, but if he goes, I have to go to. That's why it's such a big decision. I don't necessarily like it either but I know it will be the best for me in the end, and my boyfriend's there and everything. He just doesn't know what's good for him. I mean I was froced to go and leave all my friends and everything, and I didn't bitch, complain, or behave any where near as bad as he is. I learned to accept it and viewed it as a positive. I don't know why he can't come to see it.
Hey... i cant and hate saying i know how you feel.... cuz thats the most fuckd up thing someone can say to you....
1st you gotta know that what he does ISNT you fault. So dont get that idea..... and i think you should go in his room and try talking to him. LIke being a cool brother and sister. Try telling him how you fell about it. I mean dont be pushy just be the cool sister trying to help him out.... You gotta step up..... I hope everything turns out ok...keepa ya head up girl <333
Thanks, haha yeah actually that did make me laugh. I was trying to read your comment, but it kept distracting me the whole time! :) Thanks for caring, it's just so complicated and right now I have to write a whole fuckin research paper for stupid science fair and I've been up till like 1 every night this week with friggen school work so I'm like ready to pass out. I can't even think anymore lol
LoL well I just finished, but I got a track meet in boston tomorrow and we have to leave early and I get dismissed during that class...I shouldn't of even friggen done it, but then my teacher would probably rape me so..and she's a beast :-O
Hang in there. If things are at it's worst and your at the bottom of the hill...then it can only get better and go up the hill...if that makes any sense. It will enventually get better...I hope.
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but has your brother been spoken to, or offered help?
because i've been in his place, almost caused my parents to divorce, caused my sister not to talk to me for months, and was a total ass to everyone. but, inside all i needed was someone to listen.
but, i'm going through that now. my sister's kinda going through that. and it's frustrating watching someone make the same mistakes i did, only she refuses to talk, or get help.
i'll keep you in my prayers if you'd like.
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It's seriously ripping us right the fuck apart. And my parents called the doctor and everything and they were going to send him to like a mental institution, well not a mental institution but something like that, I'm not really quite sure. Either that or a shrink. But I'm almost positive he'd refuse to go.
I don't know what goes on in his mind.
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i mean.. if i were a parent, and a kid was about to tear apart my marriage.. i'd let the kid go back to his old school. i mean.. if i were forced to go to a new school, and leave my parents.. i'd raise hell too.
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i hope things get better.
wishin you the best.. :o)
keep your head up.
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1st you gotta know that what he does ISNT you fault. So dont get that idea..... and i think you should go in his room and try talking to him. LIke being a cool brother and sister. Try telling him how you fell about it. I mean dont be pushy just be the cool sister trying to help him out.... You gotta step up..... I hope everything turns out ok...keepa ya head up girl
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I was trying to read your comment, but it kept distracting me the whole time! :)
Thanks for caring, it's just so complicated
and right now I have to write a whole fuckin research paper for stupid science fair and I've been up till like 1 every night this week with friggen school work so I'm like ready to pass out. I can't even think anymore lol
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I say hand in that paper the day its due then just leave.....
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If things are at it's worst and your at the bottom of the hill...then it can only get better and go up the hill...if that makes any sense. It will enventually get better...I hope.
<3 Jessica
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