Absolutely, and purposely. Maybe I'm terrible, but I have dumped a few friendships simply because I was tired of being the only one making an effort. I also have one that I dumped because they annoyed the hell out of me. Now I just sound mean.
You should message Shelly and get her number. I'm sure she'd love to hear from you.
Well... my husband (who is awesome) saw how sad I was... and tracked Shelly down. She is a dietician at UAB, and he just called UAB until he found where she worked... So I'm sending her flowers and cupcakes Friday for her birthday. I love him.
Ps- Honestly, you are not horrible. I think Shelly "dumped" me because she thought I wasn't making any effort. And she was kind of right.. I was just so rammed up Barry's butt I didn't hang out with anyone. Now that I'm over Barry (haha), I realize what I douche I've been. I want to break this cycle in my life. People aren't perfect; I'm not perfect... so there is no perfect friendship. But friendship is still a wonderful thing.
I have plenty of people who I wish we were still friends. I have really been praying for God to send those people back into my life or send me some new people. And on Monday one friend I have REALLY been missing called and we are meeting her and her husband for dinner Friday night. We havent had a call from them in over a year. So God really came through. You and Shelly will fall right back into place :)
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You should message Shelly and get her number. I'm sure she'd love to hear from you.
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Ps- Honestly, you are not horrible. I think Shelly "dumped" me because she thought I wasn't making any effort. And she was kind of right.. I was just so rammed up Barry's butt I didn't hang out with anyone. Now that I'm over Barry (haha), I realize what I douche I've been. I want to break this cycle in my life. People aren't perfect; I'm not perfect... so there is no perfect friendship. But friendship is still a wonderful thing.
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I have plenty of people who I wish we were still friends. I have really been praying for God to send those people back into my life or send me some new people. And on Monday one friend I have REALLY been missing called and we are meeting her and her husband for dinner Friday night. We havent had a call from them in over a year. So God really came through. You and Shelly will fall right back into place :)
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