who you'd be today

[crazychewy]

I dont know why my Mom likes to hurt me...I don't know why she wants to make me upset, while also spreading lies. ButI guess she needs a reason to feel important. She had found some statistics somewhere that Hawaii has more 10x the SIDS deaths, and she says it is because of the VOG and the air..but these are things she decided before she came out

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[wedeconstruct]

I'm sorry that your mom isn't being understanding of your pain. It's definitely hard being an adult and dealing with your parents . . . I see it every day with my mom. It's tough to know what to do, because you don't want to hurt the connection you have with your parents, but sometimes it seems almost impossible to do anything else.

Good luck, Marie. And I think you're doing really well, considering.

I understand

[caronology]

I think that's also why I don't like grieving around mom, it's almost as if she enjoys it (for lack of better words) and so I've made it a point to explain to her I can't have her go with me to Compassionate Friends meetings at all. Sadly, having her there makes is soooo much worse. Unlike when you would join me