Parallel Universe

[crazyfur]

Referred my Dad for a care assessment and found hes got all the classic symptoms of dementia. It doesnt surprise me but i was shocked that someone had put a name to it and am trying to get a grip on what i need to do next

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[atomicat]

It's so good to hear from you again, so sorry it has to be under these circumstances. I've never had to deal with that so, anything I say here would be rather hollow. Hmmm, I've never heard of that parallel process but yes, I can see it. Must look up that article on empathy that was in NewScientist recently. Remember... this is a good sign... empathy, humanity, feeling, all good things even though they're hurting you right now. I'm sending big hugs and unfortunately not Saskatoon berries, the summer season was the shits. Someday.

[crazyfur]

Good to hear from you too.Been a little too busy to frequent Lj much lately. Im actually trying my hardest not to feel empathy and be a professional instead cos it is much easier to deal with it that way.

[prplhaze]

I am sorry to hear about your dad hon. My grandmother passed on from dimensia, so I know where you are coming from. *hugs tight* Try to stay strong, that is what he can use more then anything, is something familiar.

you

prplhaze

[crazyfur]

thanks Prpl. My counsellor is urging me to take care of myself so that i can cope better. My Dad tried to commit suicide this morning but failed. In some ways it was a relief cos now the Dr is referring him for tests and more care.