98% fine!

[crazyncuteks]

Life gets better each day! I'm coming to terms with the fact that if I can't get love, affection, commitment, respect, and a want "to work on our relationship"; that it's not worth being depressed over. I held that relationship together. That's why it lasted so long. And I'm sure that I would have gotten strung around for longer if I had kept

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[crazyncuteks]

No. It's the part of me that isn't thinking with my head but my heart so I act irrational.

[strawberrychaos]

Now there's some great stuff, girl!! Good for you.

The only thing is: do not feel like a fool for loving him. I have been in your shoes and when we beat ourselves up for merely being sweet, caring, supportive women in a relationship, it only drags us down. You did what you thought was right at the time. We live and learn and do better the next time around. Here's to new, better love!!! :-)

[lusiphur220]

I hate to say it, but if you'd asked me he wasn't exactly the most reliable or caring person. Now granted he's is one of my better friends, but he never came across as the most caring person in any relationship...unless your name was Ivy. It's good to see that you're not dwelling on him, because I don't think you'd be any fun to talk to if you were depressed and constantly talking about him.

One last thing, what exactly does "Thinks happen for a reason" mean?

[crazyncuteks]

I appriciate your input on this kind of stuff. Thank you for talking to me. I know that I might vent alot on you and I'm sorry about that. Just tell me to shut up. :) I'll get the point! And what you just said is true I believe. It's so hard to think of everything that has happened and been said in the past year and a half and figure out what was the truth and what was a lie. I'm trying not to focus on it too much, it is making my brain hurt. But thank you for distracting me! I had fun talking to you last night! Have a good day! I know I am at work! :P