Sadly, I didn't get as much time with Martin as I would have liked. The event was a strange mix for me (in a good way) that kept me with a pretty limited crowd
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"The thing that probably helps me get over that the most is trolling all those posts, pulling out the pieces that I was part of, putting it together into my own bullet list and seeing that my event was in fact as cool as theirs. All this assumes I didn't do it first for the events where I'm just that pumped from the experience and I'm one of the quick jumpers."
That is a fantastic idea. I'm going to start employing that.
Actually, I specifically try to avoid doing that. Highlight lists work well for some players to help them celebrate and remember events, but I try very hard to not make my own bullet pointed lists. You will notice that I never use that format when writing about events
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I think I missed a few key elements in there. I try to do it first because I want to remember as much of it as possible myself. I make the "highlights" list because I want to remember all the good stuff. I use it as the basis for *PARTS* of my PEL.
Sometimes though I am lax in getting anything written. When that happens, I find others' highlights a good piece of source material for sparking my memory.
On the rare occasion where I don't feel like I had as good an event as others, whatever that re3ally means, *THEN* I use that list to remind myself that I did indeed have a good event.
Based on the incongruity of lists, I rarely feel like I'm at the same things with anyone to even contemplate comparing event quality.
And hey, it's your LJ and I commented in it. You should definitely give it a good long respone. Both our views are valid for each of us and I for one like hearing your points of view.
"One of the few things that happened at this event that has given me a lot of concern was learning how serious the possibility is that Madrigal will move some of its events to upper New Hampshire. I understand all the many very good reasons why this is being considered, but this could be a deal breaker for me and my friends. We’ll just have to wait and see what happens I guess."
I've heard this from multiple people-- just vocalize it in PELs etc.? This concern is definitely on my radar.
"One of the weird difficulties I often have with Madrigal events is that I socialize with some really amazing high achieving players." Can I give you my general impression of Martin? Just as an outside perspective. From day one, Martin has been one of the most open, friendly, and encouraging PCs, particularly to new players. You have always made an effort to include and inform people, and I think, whether or not other people realize it, you are one of the real anchors of the PC base. So, even if you don't feel as "cool" as other players, please
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You words and sentiments are greatly appreciated, and it is good to know I'm having a positive impact. I just hope my post didn't come across as me worrying that I wasn't cool enough. I have a relatively healthy vanity. I just try to make sure that I remember that I am cool, and not get tricked into wondering how cool I am compared to other players.
I'll make some mention in my PEL about a site change. But given there hasn't been anything officially announced I kind of hate to be alarmist about things where I don't have any details. Some general thoughts on the subject are probably warranted however and I can certainly give those.
I got a couple of comments about how well I pulled off Reed, and I'll freely admit I was a little surprised by them. I put effort into the costume, but I really didn't make a conscious effort to act like Reed. Do Chris and I have similar styles? Was it just the physical similarities? Was I subconsciously picking up his style and mannerism? It is interesting to consider.
I think part of it is just the physical similarities, and the fact that you and Chris carry yourselves similarly. But you definitely picked up some of his specific mannerisms-- it's interesting that you picked them up subconsciously. Part of me wonders if it has something to do with costuming. I know when I put on iconic costume pieces, I sometimes adapt mannerisms that I don't even notice, and, when people comment on them, I go "wait, really?" Like, based on this past event, I received comments that Esme broadcasts sadness pretty heavily, even when she's happy-- it's not something I do intentionally, but I can feel it as something I do when I fall into that character. I think the general mood I communicate is just a part of that character that I'm unintentionally telegraphing, but is integral to the character.
for what its worth, i love having you around. often the little gems you drop and actions you take really flesh out the world for me, and leave me laughing in my head with how subtle and awesome they are.
It was a small moment, barely even a flourish, but one of the little gems I experienced this event was during the Giant Octopus fight. Your arm was maimed, and you had dropped your glaive. When I fixed your arm and gave your back your glaive while you were still fighting I kind of felt like that little forklift guy in Cars who worked in Lightning McQueen's pit crew.
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That is a fantastic idea. I'm going to start employing that.
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Sometimes though I am lax in getting anything written. When that happens, I find others' highlights a good piece of source material for sparking my memory.
On the rare occasion where I don't feel like I had as good an event as others, whatever that re3ally means, *THEN* I use that list to remind myself that I did indeed have a good event.
Based on the incongruity of lists, I rarely feel like I'm at the same things with anyone to even contemplate comparing event quality.
And hey, it's your LJ and I commented in it. You should definitely give it a good long respone. Both our views are valid for each of us and I for one like hearing your points of view.
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I've heard this from multiple people-- just vocalize it in PELs etc.? This concern is definitely on my radar.
"One of the weird difficulties I often have with Madrigal events is that I socialize with some really amazing high achieving players."
Can I give you my general impression of Martin? Just as an outside perspective. From day one, Martin has been one of the most open, friendly, and encouraging PCs, particularly to new players. You have always made an effort to include and inform people, and I think, whether or not other people realize it, you are one of the real anchors of the PC base. So, even if you don't feel as "cool" as other players, please ( ... )
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I'll make some mention in my PEL about a site change. But given there hasn't been anything officially announced I kind of hate to be alarmist about things where I don't have any details. Some general thoughts on the subject are probably warranted however and I can certainly give those.
I got a couple of comments about how well I pulled off Reed, and I'll freely admit I was a little surprised by them. I put effort into the costume, but I really didn't make a conscious effort to act like Reed. Do Chris and I have similar styles? Was it just the physical similarities? Was I subconsciously picking up his style and mannerism? It is interesting to consider.
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