The post that shows myside...

[creeves1982]

So…Donald says that I’m hurting John, Donald says that I’m being irrational. Well here is the post that should clear most of it up. OK. John is being over-emotional about the whole thing. Which is how John is. That’s one thing that I don’t need from John. For 14 years I’ve dealt with that. That’s made me like that. The comments he makes, (

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rethining is a good idea

[nightsbane]

chuckie 14 years i dont understand how you can throw that away you love people for there flaws and how they complment your own person dont give that up hun

[ulic3000]

“What you did hurt me more then it did you” incorrect statement...what I have said about that and what Ihave always said about that is THAT WHAT YOU DID HURT ME MORE THEN YOU KNOW. BECAUSE I FELT LIKE I HAD FAILED YOU! BECAUSE I FELT LIKE I SHOULD HAVE SEEN IT COMMING! I HAVE NEVER ONCE IN MY LIFE CLAIMED TO BE PERFECT, ONE THING YOU SHOULD HAVE KNOWN ABOUT ME IS THAT I TRY TO MAKE AMMENDS FOR WHEN I FUCK UP. AND IF THERE WAS EVER A PROBLEM YOU HAD YOU SHOULD HAVE SAID SOMETHING, BECAUSE I TRY to change shit. IVE BEEN TRYING TO CHANGE ME, and its always been about me, not entirley true....HMM lets see I remember a bbq at your house an idea I came up with why? Well so you could be in a group setting to hang otu with ELyse...I spent $200 plus on that for you...because I thought it would be helping you...BEcause I thought it would be a good thing for you... When you were working at the photo lab in target and I had sarted to persue a job at Geico, I pushed you to apply there because Ithought it would be better for you... Whenever you

[hellbard]

"Issues don't solve themselves, if your bitchy, then bitch. If you have a problem, say something... pick up a phone."

There has been plenty of times where you have had some kind of issue with me and never said a damn thing. I always heard through the grape vine. Why didn't you just "pick up a phone"?

[hellbard]

This is true. Keep in mind that last time you picked up a phone, it was to ask if I wanted to go to the gym. The bullshit came out when I mentioned what happened at the office that day.

But whatever. No big deal really and it's not our post to be debating in.

[hellbard]

No matter what, both of you are going to do what you feel is right here. One of you could be wrong or you could both be wrong. Lets just hope you both learn from the possible mistakes. This is the most I'm getting involved b/c in the grand sceme of things, I don't know shit baout either of you or your relationship over the years.

[z0ltan]

I have no idea what the incedent was.... but it sounds like it was just a trigger for all the rest of the shit. I wish I could say something to help out but if someone is always getting on your nerves.... it's usually time for a break.