Comments | crimson_ice77: why don't you go back to your home on whore island?

crimson_ice77

why don't you go back to your home on whore island?

Jul 31, 2005 16:08

Okay girls (& guys) I need some advice on this one. Brandon has a friend named Kerry who is a close personal friend of his. Now I don't have a problem with my boyfriend having friends that are girls- that's stupid. What I don't like however, is when Kerry says things like, "too bad you're gonna leave her (me) for me when I come to GV next fall." Or ( Read more... )

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anonymous July 31 2005, 23:05:34 UTC

I've done oral w/Brandon twice, and i want him bad.
So, we shall see who wins him, yes we shall indeed.

crimson_ice77 August 1 2005, 02:31:34 UTC

Yeah way to post anonymously. REAL cool. And you're not Kerry, so i don't really care about what you have to say. Good for you doing oral twice with Brandon, I bet there's a reason it was only twice. Better luck next time there killer.

jayboo6969 August 1 2005, 02:16:07 UTC

Well I wish I had some good advice for you, but since I've been cheated on a few too many times, I don't know if my advice would be good. But I hope you take that bitch down! I hate sluts like her, you do what you gotta do! Oh, and if you need help at school, I'm always there to help.. say if you need help pushing her off the bridge.... hehe :)

crimson_ice77 August 1 2005, 02:33:50 UTC

HAHAHA oh I will definately keep ya posted on that one. I'm usually not the angry type, but Im sorry, when you go after MY boyfriend, yeah- it's war bitch. Lol. I dealt with that shit way too much in highschool and I guess I was wrong for assuming it left once you entered college.

the best advice i can give: stay calm... aquachica5 August 1 2005, 02:56:16 UTC

ok, i've been in this kind of situation multiple times, but usually i'm always on the other side of the fence. i'm just one of those girls that get along with guys better than other girls, so i've always had a lot more guy friends than girl friends...ANYWAYS (although my guy friends NEVER acted like this bitch is...) it still bugged my boyfriend(s). the best affect for me was to just stay calm. if you get angry when you talk to him about it, he'll take it personally and feel like you're attacking him and his friend. play the victim. don't even let your anger come through in your voice. use "i" and not "you" for instance..."i feel really uncomfortable when she makes comments like that." rather than "you shouldn't encourage her to make comments like that." (u get the picture, hopefully?) tell him that you would appreciate it if he were to take a step in your shoes, put himself in your position. that it would mean a lot if he could respect your feelings and tell his friend to back down. try not to pull the "i did it for you" ( ( ... )

Re: the best advice i can give: stay calm... aquachica5 August 6 2005, 03:20:11 UTC

ps if he still doesn't shape up even after all that, and doesn't have the respect for you to see your side of things...it's time to think about kicking him to the curb!
easier said than done...i know...

anonymous August 1 2005, 04:16:34 UTC

Reeses babe, if he can't see what a beautiful and amazing person you are, then it's seriously his loss. The way you put up with so much in your relationship shows you care a hell of a lot about him, and it's his own dumb fault if he can't see that. As for this Kerry girl, IM the bitch and tell her how it is- you've always been good at that, lol. God I would've never wanted to be on your bad side back when we were in highschool (even though they were different schools). Well make sure she really wants your boyfriend first, don't just go yelling at people, haha. Anyway, give me a call sometime this weekend, I'm pretty sure I'll be in town so should catch up or something, I'm sure you've got tons of movies I haven't seen, lol.
Love always,
Jeff

anonymous August 2 2005, 08:00:16 UTC

oh come on, my mom voted for Kerry last year. sux he lost.

Its the end... anonymous August 5 2005, 05:53:26 UTC

I don't know you, but after reading a few of your posts, I kinda have a feel for what you're going through. In all honesty, your relationship seems to be dwindling, and more and more you are unhappy with the way things are going... So what to do? Considering breaking it off with him, at least for a while... so you both can truly see what you mean to each other. Being a guy, I know that since he's letting this jailbait on and curiously accepting her wants for him then he's probably bored in your relationship and hes looking for something different... he just hasn't found it yet, and you are his security and companionship for the time being. Take this for what you will... I'm blunt, but I'm serious!

Re: Its the end... anonymous August 5 2005, 05:58:09 UTC

Oh yeah, and another thing.... Life is Too short to worry about shit like this... Tell him to get his shit together and profess his love for ONLY you... or send him packing. You are too young to be tied up in a relationship that is half-assed. Get out there, enjoy life, have fun, make mistakes, and LEARN.

Re: Its the end... crimson_ice77 August 5 2005, 21:17:07 UTC

Hey, thanks for the comments, but who is this? Just wondering :)