Comments | crimson_idol: And if I go away, what would still remain of me?

crimson_idol

And if I go away, what would still remain of me?

Jul 05, 2005 03:11

This entry has taken some time to write. Partly because it took awhile for me to realize some things about someone, and partly to let time pass so that I can be more logical and less angry. But, as it's written, cursing will probably ensue. Be forewarned ( Read more... )

Comments 7

harbinger_evil July 7 2005, 08:24:10 UTC

Yo man... I used to talk to you every so often on AIM over a year ago, but I know you through meatballhead15. If you wanna talk to someone, I'm more than willing to talk to ya again. I'm "The Raven 1884" on AIM. Hit me up whenever I'm online - I have a lot of free time these days.

That said...

Dude... that's freakin' cold. I could say things like "people change" or "maybe you should do ______ to make the situation better," but I won't. All the advice I can offer is that you can only do so much. Sometimes, no matter what you do or say, you can only offer friendship - nothing more. If someone rejects you, for whatever reason, then sometimes you just have to cut your losses and move on. It's both a gift and a curse to have free will in life.

crimson_idol July 10 2005, 05:42:25 UTC

The truth usually is cold. And I hate the "free will" excuse. It's something people use to try and avoid accountability. Just because someone can spit in your face, doesn't mean they should.

But you're not the first person to tell me to cut my losses in this case.

mtgserra July 7 2005, 10:31:24 UTC

Alright, so it seems that I am going to have a bone to pick with this post... *sigh* I don't mean this to be a flame or anything against your character, but I call them as I see them.

So my question for you is: Do you even know the person you are writing about, criticizing, and causing pain and agony? I mean, really know her?
She got a boyfriend, and that boyfriend hurt her when he broke up with her, and so now, she doesn't trust anyone.

What the fuck?

I don't know about you, but if I got dumped in such a manner, I would be pretty distraught and cautious. In every relationship there are two people and the words and actions of one affect the other. If she feels that her ex-boyfriend betrayed her and she cannot trust people at the moment go with it. It is something that she has to get over. When people get hurt they need time to heal and get back to normal; they don't just forget it and move on with their lives.

Now I'm sorry, but if someone hurts me, then to hell with them, but I'm not going to take it out on the rest of my ( ... )

crimson_idol July 10 2005, 09:34:48 UTC

So she won't respond herself, but she'll send other people here on her behalf? Whatever...

Where do you get off asking such a pretentious question? Do I really know her? Don't presume to make any judgments about me or my post, because you know nothing about me or where I'm coming from. Do I really know her? As well as anyone knows anybody, isn't that what they all say? I know her better than a lot, but not best of all. There are probably things you know about her that I don't, just as the opposite is probably true as well. I certainly know her better than I did over two years ago.

Don't even try to advise me on relationships. Until you watch the one you love bleed to death in your arms, don't even fucking dare!

How is she taking it out on her friends? Did you even read the entire post, or just take what you could twist and use in your reply? The distance and indifference that she's bestowed upon me is the same that she's bestowed upon others as well because of the hurt she endured by her boyfriend. I've talked to some ( ... )

mtgserra July 10 2005, 19:02:41 UTC

No one sent me to reply. These replies are totally of my own accord. If I feel like posting when someone is talking about a friend of mine don't jump the gun and assume that she sent me to reply ( ... )

crimson_idol July 11 2005, 07:07:17 UTC

I wasn't assuming when I made the comment that she sent you here. I know she would never do something like that. But I do know that you wouldn't have come here if not for her. And your question pissed me off, so I was being an asshole with that remark. I admit that ( ... )

eternitat October 9 2005, 12:05:54 UTC

I was afraid at first you were talking about moi.

I hardly ever IM anyone first. I'm not THAT outgoing.

But then you mentioned the boyfriend and the time zone differences and realized it was not me. You can IM me anytime.