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[crimson_musing]

The title says it all

Comments

[alive49]

::hugs:: You are not a terrible person, you're just going through a tough time right now. Hang in there!

[whitiger]

I am sorry.
I have failed you.
I offered you a possible resource and I have been so caught up in my own world that I failed to follow through.
I will find that information and get it to you by Sunday night.
Please forgive me.
Thank you, for trusting me enough to share a part of your life.
Love you,
Steph

[astridsdream]

And here I thought I was the only one to use wads of toilet paper for the first few bleedings.

We were at the beach for a week when I started. My mom found out that time, but only because I put the bloody underwear in the laundry instead of under my bed.

It's hard to ask for help. ::hugs:: Me, I'm glad to know you're human and do dumbity-dumb human things. Also that I wasn't the only one to hide my first menstruation from anyone who might be able to help.

[kpooka17]

I did the exact same thing. I was told it would happen but it's not like they tell you what it looks like. So after two days I summoned the courage to show my mom the underwear/ She then followed it up with a congratulations and showed me where she kept the pads. Still I had gone two days being terrified that I had shat myself or something.

[shortfieryone]

You are not a terrible person. When Steven was Riley's age I remember I had him on my shoulder and he bit me...hard...and it hurt...so I had a normal human reaction and shouted NO to my baby boy...who instantly began to cry making me feel like crap...but that is what we do. We are hurt and scared and we react without thinking...that doesn't make us horrible people it simply makes us human.

[mad_willy]

I refuse. I will continue to send psychic unconditional positive regard from my rainy northwestern home.

[janusmzeal]

no one gave me the talk either. I learned from friends' lewd jokes, and maybe movies, even the internet. sex ed never even taught me what went where.