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Nov 16, 2006 05:56

i wish guys had standards, morals, limits, class...anything like that really. why are there so many mansluts? i don't get it. it's disgusting. it's not attractive. i think people fail to realize that guys who whore themselves around are just like girls who do it...insecure. but of course they aren't looked down upon for it. ooooh double standards ( Read more... )

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so i'm torn... no_talent_hack November 16 2006, 17:14:41 UTC
...because on the one hand, i think its really good to have high standards for yourself...

...but on the other, its the height of your standards that is keeping you from finding the relationship you want.

not that i think you should overlook manslutitude (tho to defend my ho-bag brethren, a LOT of it is insecurity, but there's a fear of intimacy and committment in there too. yay dysfunction). i also think that most of the human race sucks. but i also know that its waiting for the right person who "clicks" into the cutout shape i've made for dating expectations is keeping that shape empty.

i'm all with you in the camp of "why can't i just be satisfied being single?", but paul, as usual, made a good point: we're wired to find companionship, and usually the good parts of a relationship outweigh the bad. usually

::hug:: i still think you're wonderful. hopefully see you anon.

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Re: so i'm torn... cronmoax November 17 2006, 05:58:08 UTC
i don't think my standards are getting in the way. it's the not meeting enough people/most guys being sluts thing.

and paul is smart.

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