Updates: Elaboration and Concluding Thoughts on the Billette

[cronos69]

I've started searching for new apartments, and I've sent an e-mail to put my name back on the roommate search list for incoming students. I figure that's about all I can do at this point

Comments

[rexxwolfe]

I think Yes you can put sudden dissconnects out.

[ramsis]

Sometimes it doesn't work out. Its alright. It happens. And there is nothing wrong with being bothered by Billette. Its a sudden change that you didn't expect or want. Well when change happens you gotta make things right that you are comfortable with. Thats why finding a new place is the way to go. Not to mention all the ridiculous restrictions that your roommate puts on you is another reason to find a new arrangement.

I'm glad you started searching already. I think you will find something that works better for you. Moving in with a copy of yourself isn't always the best thing as well they turn out to be not as similar as you think like what happened here . Even my closest friends aren't copies of me.. I need variety and differences in my life to make things work.

Sounds like you are going about this right now and no you aren't over reacting at all. You should be comfortable too in your own home away from home. I don't think that is unreasonable to ask for. ROAR ROAR ROAR!

[pandaposse]

I think it can be said (and now proven by your situation) that just because someone is similar to you, doesn't mean that you would instantly be able to understand each other. Those differences between you two, maybe they were fewer than the similarities between you two, they seem to be what really set you apart from each other. But that's a good thing in the end. It's what makes you unique as a person. You're not pigeon-holed into some personality type or some faceless name in a group of people with the same interests

[turk_turkleton]

pandaposse sounds about right. I still remember a couple occasions of the pulling away. But it happens with everyone. I know plenty of people who refuse to even try to live with roommates. I think the three of us worked out well cause we were good friends and wanted it to work out. Of the four years in college, and ever since actually, that was my favorite roommate situation. After that year, at least I wasn't pissed off at you and ended up not being friends anymore like is going to happen with my current situation.