Baker Street

[crufix]

I'm still pretty bummed about Ian...I guess he wasn't the kind of friend I could keep due to my stubbornness. I can't really change that part of me no matter how nice I try to be and even though I recognize it and it's pointed out. After Ash and Mel he's the third person who has dropped contact with me. I'm starting to see how older people simply

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[hiphopnotik]

chandler, you know ive always embraced the abrasive, opinionated, and honest chandler. I wish we did a better job at hangin out and keepin in touch. i ruv you and hope this vegas shit doesnt effect your endearment for my shit haha. i know youre my boy no matter what :D i still consider you to be one of my closest friends, we just rarely chill nowadays haha

[anonymous]

Is this the Ian whom you brought to Phil's standup. AKA the Scotch know-it-all?

Oh and dude, now that we are getting older, its ok to drop friends. You're goal is to keep the ones who have been there for you through thick and thin. My life has been way better with the small amount of friends I now have. SO yeah do expect that list to go DOWN!

[hid_edgar]

my bad that was made by I.

[crufix]

It's not ok to drop friends and I refuse to believe that losing people makes your life better. I don't believe there are phases of life as in "now I have to make a lot of friends" and "now I have to keep friends".

I look at my parents and my dad has like 2 friends.
I look at my mom and she's a bit better she has about 5.

I do NOT want to be like that. When I look at my life 30 years from now and can only name maybe 3 people who are still friends because "as you get older expect that list to go DOWN" well it never stops. You lose more and more no matter what, not just to not being friends-but when people move away, die in accidents/medical issues, or you just float away as people.