Comments | crumyleper: 3rd times a charm

crumyleper

3rd times a charm

Jun 13, 2005 21:35

Well, I saw Tara today for a whopping 15 minutes. ALLLLLRIIIIGHT. She just left to go pick up Dave and hang out at Redheads down the road. I told her that I'd like her to come home tonight but she said that that made her want to stay out even later... like I was basically 'telling' her she needed to be home and that made her want to rebel. ( Read more... )

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qtsuzie June 14 2005, 13:06:11 UTC

Ok, first of all, there is no need to be talking about death... you are not going to die b/c I said so... you will live forever b/c that is what you do, LOL... but if, by some miracle, something happens she will not get your life insurance b/c if she trys for it someone maybe getting her life insurance (JK ( ... )

ariesgddss June 14 2005, 15:04:57 UTC

You sound like me:
whenever I get really upset or really REALLY angry, I tend not to eat because my stomach is all like "ROAR! FUCK YOUUUUUU!"
I dunno how you are handling this man, but good freaking job. I would have gone off the deep end by now. Maybe been in the papers or on the news for a homocide...etc etc. BUT - try not to think like I would. Listen to Suz because she knows how to handle things FAR BETTER than I. Mwhaha!
Much Love Brotha.

teenagesellout June 14 2005, 18:08:46 UTC

She's blantantly pushing you away, dude. I don't know why, but she is. Maybe she's immature and doesn't want to grow up, and now sees you as more of a parental figure, which is why she wants to defy you more and more. Just think; when you have kids, you get to go through stuff like this all through their teens!

I don't think it's healthy to tell your wife she shouldn't hang out with this bastard Dave, but when it's effecting your relationship this much, I think it needs to be done. He's venom. I also think you should talk to her about marriage counseling. The key is communication. Talk her ear off until you've said everything you need to say; don't hold back, she needs to hear it!

On another note, you're such a good guy Ryan, and you deserve better than this. A relationship is a lot of work. Either you do the work in front of you, or you get out. Sounds like she's taking the coward's way out; trying to make you mad enough that you'll get fed up and leave her.