my plan...

[crypticdelphian]

MY plan is to force my dad to listen to me.... i know my mom won't listen to me and a prime opportunity for my dad to listen to me (and he is more sentimental/ understanding) without my mom interfereing or ginving second thoughts that i am ok... he is coming to pick me up tomarrow and after my final and the car is packed... i am going to be very

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[queenstumblina]

I think the letter is a good idea.

And your talk with your dad sounds good- just don't let it dissolve into a nonproductive fight (that is the problem I have usually).

I think you are doing wonderfully- you are taking control of your feelings and dealing with them as best you can. What more could anyone ask?

[crypticdelphian]

aww thanks.... but i am really scared... i just hope i go through with it.. its one thing to write it down.. another to do it.... but thanks.... *hugs*

[queenstumblina]

*hugs*

Don't worry. Any decent professional will be able to help you a lot, not judge you or anything. At the very least, he/she will be able to help you figure out some ways to cope a little bit better. Plus, there is a good chance that he/she will be able to give you a good strategy for dealing with your parents' attitudes.

Don't fear. As my favorite author put it, "Courage is found in the most unusual of places."

[crypticdelphian]

my courage place is the toilet... when no one is in the bathroom