HELP

[crystaldome]

How do you support someone when you don't feel that they're making a good choice and even they seem somewhat unsure/hesitant. As a friend I'm suppose to make sure my friends are happy and ...I'm not sure this choice will do that...so really how do you give support when you don't believe in what you're supporting?

Comments

[nishio]

you just do it...realizing that no matter what you will ever do or say it won't really change the descisions a person is going to make on their own...interfering in a large amount causes more irratation than help and things have a magical way of fixing themselves. plus...if this is a descision that is going to come back and bite the person in the ass later than they will need someone there when it all get out of hand goes wrong. interfering might make it impossible for you to be there when your truely needed

[crystaldome]

thanks