Comments | cuddlewhore22: Same song, gazillionth verse

cuddlewhore22

Same song, gazillionth verse

Mar 06, 2006 18:40

I don't remember who it was, but someone once commented on the fact that I rarely, if ever, write anything bad, sad, mean, forlorn, depressing, angry, or negative in my LJ. And it's true. Rarely do I vent that kind of frustration or negative emotion to any one else, especially in a forum such as this. But, for the gazillionth time, it does not mean ( Read more... )

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firstlight1 March 7 2006, 04:18:34 UTC

Wow. I...wow...I don't think I've ever heard so much anger from you (and I've seen you when you're pretty angry). Those last few lines - man, they burn ( ... )

cuddlewhore22 March 7 2006, 21:43:44 UTC

Yeah. Even today, I'm feeling pretty angry about it. And the worst part is that I don't have a forseeable solution, at least not right now. It will make you happy to know, though, that changing myself hasn't really seriously entered my mind. And, even if I wanted to, the odds of my actually doing it would be pretty low.

Thank you for the nice things that you said... They came at the right time. :) *gushy and squishy hugs*

firstlight1 March 9 2006, 05:40:35 UTC

Gushy & Squishy hugs? That sounds like something in a scary movie...

duckssaymip March 7 2006, 05:41:27 UTC

I know you probably don't want people responding to this post so much, that it's probably more of a "reflection to self for others to view" kind of thing, but I guess I'm a loudmouth who needs to throw in his 2 cents. I really can't conceive of any way that someone calling you stupid or ugly is either accurate or funny. If I were you, I'd take the offender by the arm next time they said something like that, lead them to a quiet corner, and say, "Look, do you know how much of an ass you are when you say things like that? Do you think I appreciate this or something? Because if so, you have absolutely no grasp on reality." Maybe I'm just blunt, I dunno.... But while wearing every emotion on your sleeve seems a little extreme, coming out and defending yourself against absurd and baseless character assaults certainly isn't. It's definitely not about changing yourself or anything. It's about making a space for yourself to operate comfortably in dealing with others. It's your personal space, and if you feel like someone is violating ( ... )

cuddlewhore22 March 7 2006, 21:49:27 UTC

Actually Mike, when I posted that post, I thought to myself "I'll bet that Mike, if no one else, will have some advice." :) For the record, I wouldn't post it up there at all if I didn't want some comment from y'all. Thank you for thinking of me, and for your help ( ... )

duckssaymip March 8 2006, 13:39:13 UTC

Ahhhhh I am totally gaining the reputation of a loudmouth! hehehe Good call on the plan... I think it will work very well :)

You know, I totally filed away that "shut the hell up line" zinger in my head for future use, too. That one was damned good. Don't worry, I promise to provide a citation when I use it.... After all, I am a historian, and that's part of the job :)

firstlight1 March 9 2006, 05:41:56 UTC

What do you mean, "gaining" the reputation? *wink*