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i HATE [slsah not really] elitist kids who think their music is the ONLY good music out there
i dont hate .them.
just their views on music
it's not even that they're saying they dont like it.. that i'd understand.. i dont like some music that i know is good
but i dont go around saying its horrible
i was just talking to one can you tell?
we were listing bands we've seen and evidentally seeing NIN twice isntead of once is a huge accomplishment that should be priased
what?
and seeing mogwai is just godly
oh yea. and front row at the dresden dolls should be a big impressive feat
but reel big fish, big d, whole wheat bread, world/ inferno, bouncing souls, streetlight, etc
they all suck and i should be lauhged at for seeing them
evidentally they're too "cookie cutter" and don't play music .they. want.. just music their fans want to hear so they can make money
ever think maybe they like the same music as their fans do
that they started playing their own music, continued, and their fans are people who like their music
heaven forbid fans like the same music as the band
or that a band not of *his/ her* liking still follows their own beat [pardon the pun]
people are so close minded about music
and that's just music
what about the other things.. bigger things?
if someone can't be considerate about music tastes, how are they going to act when talking about political situations they dont agree with? or making fun of someone because they do something not good/ cool/ acceptable enough?
if they can't see that maybe they're wrong and the other music is good just not their style.. how are they suposed to admit they're wrong about things involving friendships and common courtesy
ethical things
its just ridiculous
people don't like admitting they are wrong
that they are being selfish
and yea.. they might be okay with people treating them that way
but others are not okay being treated that way
be considerate to people's feelings not just your own
don't assume other people work or should work the same way
especially people you suposedly care about
and yea. a lot of that last paragraph is to you, cyrus.
i dont care how bitchy or whatever you think it is
taking space for yoruself is one thing
pushing people away and flat out ditching them
not calling them when you promise you would
not showing up when you make plans/ cancelling last minute?
thats not cool
no. its not even that its not cool
its rude. its common courtesy to follow through.. courtesy you should show to .everyone. but especially your friends.
mostly though? its selfish and hurtful to the people you're acting that way to
lexi and i would have helped you any way we could
but its so true
we owe the old you
not this new one who expects our help and wants us to not expect anything from you?
no. it doesnt work that way. i dont care if you spent twenty minutes chillin while i was crying and getting yelled at.
that doesnt give you the right to hurt me
but hey. you have someone to stay with now.
you dont need the rest of us.
and obviously she's okay with that.. she was always a bitch to us anyway
of course she told you she liked us.. you would have been upset if she didnt and she didnt want to make you upset
but hey guess what
she was always whiney and got jealous whenever another grl was near you
maybe it wasnt even a conscious thing for her
but enough of us noticed it that you can't deny it happened
if all you needed was space
the option to stop making plans for awhile and just be alone
its you. its always been you.. just more so now than before
its normal to want time alone
but the way you go about it is all wrong
and thats what i have to say about that
you want more? you get to call me and we'll make plans to talk in person
none of this IM bullshit
and i know if i'm on the phone i'll just hang up when i start getting pissed
if only i could write this much in such a short amount of time with my research papers.
i dont hate .them.
just their views on music
it's not even that they're saying they dont like it.. that i'd understand.. i dont like some music that i know is good
but i dont go around saying its horrible
i was just talking to one can you tell?
we were listing bands we've seen and evidentally seeing NIN twice isntead of once is a huge accomplishment that should be priased
what?
and seeing mogwai is just godly
oh yea. and front row at the dresden dolls should be a big impressive feat
but reel big fish, big d, whole wheat bread, world/ inferno, bouncing souls, streetlight, etc
they all suck and i should be lauhged at for seeing them
evidentally they're too "cookie cutter" and don't play music .they. want.. just music their fans want to hear so they can make money
ever think maybe they like the same music as their fans do
that they started playing their own music, continued, and their fans are people who like their music
heaven forbid fans like the same music as the band
or that a band not of *his/ her* liking still follows their own beat [pardon the pun]
people are so close minded about music
and that's just music
what about the other things.. bigger things?
if someone can't be considerate about music tastes, how are they going to act when talking about political situations they dont agree with? or making fun of someone because they do something not good/ cool/ acceptable enough?
if they can't see that maybe they're wrong and the other music is good just not their style.. how are they suposed to admit they're wrong about things involving friendships and common courtesy
ethical things
its just ridiculous
people don't like admitting they are wrong
that they are being selfish
and yea.. they might be okay with people treating them that way
but others are not okay being treated that way
be considerate to people's feelings not just your own
don't assume other people work or should work the same way
especially people you suposedly care about
and yea. a lot of that last paragraph is to you, cyrus.
i dont care how bitchy or whatever you think it is
taking space for yoruself is one thing
pushing people away and flat out ditching them
not calling them when you promise you would
not showing up when you make plans/ cancelling last minute?
thats not cool
no. its not even that its not cool
its rude. its common courtesy to follow through.. courtesy you should show to .everyone. but especially your friends.
mostly though? its selfish and hurtful to the people you're acting that way to
lexi and i would have helped you any way we could
but its so true
we owe the old you
not this new one who expects our help and wants us to not expect anything from you?
no. it doesnt work that way. i dont care if you spent twenty minutes chillin while i was crying and getting yelled at.
that doesnt give you the right to hurt me
but hey. you have someone to stay with now.
you dont need the rest of us.
and obviously she's okay with that.. she was always a bitch to us anyway
of course she told you she liked us.. you would have been upset if she didnt and she didnt want to make you upset
but hey guess what
she was always whiney and got jealous whenever another grl was near you
maybe it wasnt even a conscious thing for her
but enough of us noticed it that you can't deny it happened
if all you needed was space
the option to stop making plans for awhile and just be alone
its you. its always been you.. just more so now than before
its normal to want time alone
but the way you go about it is all wrong
and thats what i have to say about that
you want more? you get to call me and we'll make plans to talk in person
none of this IM bullshit
and i know if i'm on the phone i'll just hang up when i start getting pissed
if only i could write this much in such a short amount of time with my research papers.