The passing of my father

[cunninggod]

So finally I am writing about the events of his passing. Hear me well.

We got the call on Friday, Feb 19 (DT junkies will get the significance of this, I just realized is myself in writing this down). An under-21 male donor with the correct tissue match had become available. He was in good health, non-smoker, a bit taller than Dad but still with in

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[dizzy88]

Sorry for your loss my dear and congrats on getting a counselor... in time you will need to let go, finger by finger, of your father because you will need to grab your own life with both hands.

I suggest getting his ID,my first love died roughly 15 years ago and I still from time to time take his ID with me either to the club or events so he is with me...somehow...

[redhead_of_doom]

I'm glad to see that you are ready to talk about this. I've missed you and I will be happy to see you again, but take of yourself first.

[christineeliza]

Thank you for sharing this. I hope that being able to talk about it provides you a continued opportunity to heal. Remember that you are loved and that those who are truely worth being a part of your life will understand why it has taken you this long to speak about it. They will also understand that you will come back to them in your time.

In my opinion, take all the time that you need to work your stuff out, you will always have a friend here. You will always have someone that loves you because I will always love you even if it's years between when I hear from you. I know that if that is what you need there is good reason for it.

[pukkalicious]

No one else will ever fully understand what you went through and what you will go through all the rest of your life...because the relationship you and your father had was unique to you. Even your other siblings had a different relationship and likely are grieving differently.

All of that being said, I know what it is like to lose someone. And I am here. Whatever you want or need, if I can do or be that for you, I will.

And in just a few short months, I will even be able to give you a hug :)