stamped//question of the week
What would you do if an ex bf/gf won't stop calling you, shows up at places you and your friends hang out (the gym, work etc.) and just won't leave you alone??
well, since this is my question, I didn't just pull it out of the air... i'v had some experience lol. I had an ex who was so annoying, that I had to break up with because of it... and after we broke up, he wouldn't stop calling. He would show up at my house sometimes, call me all the damn time, give me stupid notes saying how badly he wanted to be with me. So, I just laid it on him and told him that if he didn't let me have my space, then I didn't want to even be his friend. Eventually, after friends told him to leave me alone, I was able to stand to talk to him, and to this day we are friends.
My best friend is currently going through this. She was dating a guy for almost 8 months, and she just broke up with him. She told him she wanted to remain friends, and he said he couldn't bear being friends with her at the moment because it hurt too much. Well, she left the next day on vacation, and was gone for a week. During that time he called me about 4 times, and my other friend about 8- never leaving a message, and wanted to know why she did it. When she returned from vacation, he showed up at her job with a 5-page letter, and then left. She was going to the gym with one of our friends, and he was showing up there. He won't stop calling her house, or even me. Just today, he IMed me, asking me a bajillion questions about her, and I could really care less about him wanting to be with her. She doesn't want to talk to him now, and he just doesn't get it. I've told him, she's told him... and we honestly don't know what to do because he won't get it.