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It's going to be alright...rev_momOctober 26 2008, 10:43:50 UTC
honest.
Letting go and starting over is the best thing you could do. Staying would have been...ummm.. stupid. Close one door and there are others to open. I'm old...I know this is true.
Ya, it hurts, but the pain means you're still alive :) ouchy.
Write on. That's what I do. Don't much care what others think as the words flow from my fingers. It's good to get it out.
I'm so glad you finally got out of that emotionally abusive relationship. Because that's what it was. Someone doesn't have to have bruises you can visibly see to be abused.
And for that reason, I say, "Get thee to a therapist STAT!!" And if it's a money issue, seek out some of the battered women's organizations local to you and see if they can help. I'm telling you - you need help and it's VERY OK to ask for it.
Until then, you can write whatever you want here without fear of retribution. We're here to listen.
Glad to see you back, but I'm sorry to hear that things have been so awful for you. You did a great thing by leaving him. Good for you! It will get better. (hugs)
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Letting go and starting over is the best thing you could do. Staying would have been...ummm.. stupid. Close one door and there are others to open. I'm old...I know this is true.
Ya, it hurts, but the pain means you're still alive :) ouchy.
Write on. That's what I do. Don't much care what others think as the words flow from my fingers. It's good to get it out.
we care.
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And for that reason, I say, "Get thee to a therapist STAT!!" And if it's a money issue, seek out some of the battered women's organizations local to you and see if they can help. I'm telling you - you need help and it's VERY OK to ask for it.
Until then, you can write whatever you want here without fear of retribution. We're here to listen.
*hugs*
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