It's really not fair for him to just change plans like that. If I were in that situation I would be spending time with you and seeing my family when I had a chance, but I guess we all prioritize things differently.
His reasoning is that he doesn't want to go to New England without knowing that he will have a place to stay on the day he arrives. I understand that. But now you are leaving me with little time to be with you and giving your family a whole weekend.
I think I am going to do a wonderful guilt trip of "Yeah...sucks that I get to see you today, a few hours when you visit, and that's all. I am sure your dad and mom will love the hours you will get to spend with them." I am not changing MY plans because he changed his. I am not going to cancel my plans to hang out with friends because he wanted to stay two days in California cause his dad and I were. His dad was doing just like I was...staying a few extra days in california cause we are there and thought Tom was going to visit his mom in New England. Funny how when a guy thinks he doesn't really use his whole brain. grrrr.
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I think I am going to do a wonderful guilt trip of "Yeah...sucks that I get to see you today, a few hours when you visit, and that's all. I am sure your dad and mom will love the hours you will get to spend with them." I am not changing MY plans because he changed his. I am not going to cancel my plans to hang out with friends because he wanted to stay two days in California cause his dad and I were. His dad was doing just like I was...staying a few extra days in california cause we are there and thought Tom was going to visit his mom in New England. Funny how when a guy thinks he doesn't really use his whole brain. grrrr.
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