Comments | cynicalgrey: FYI

cynicalgrey

FYI

Jul 28, 2009 19:43

I have a huge pet peeve about my exes always texting me some random ass question in relation to how I am doing then not responding. Guys, seriously... you can stop it. If you want to know, then be interested in my friendship and stop being a scared kid behind your phone. If you are just wanting info to see how I might still not be over your ( Read more... )

boys, i don't give a fuck, stress, bad ass

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aimeegomeow July 29 2009, 01:12:17 UTC

I saw two of your turd muffins at a work function tonight. B;ah.

I send you vibes. Zumba on Thursday if you want to be not a lazy ass.

cynicalgrey July 29 2009, 01:19:00 UTC

Hah, those two give me the most giggles, especially those that think I am all H8H8H8H8 on D. Ummm, one of the guys in that crew (SS are the initials) was showing me a picture of D all passed out drunk and written on like I was going to be "hahaha that bastard!" I was more like "Ooooh, cute, but not as bad as we did Tank." D actually communicates and is fairly nice, though I am sure he still talks trash on how crazy I am or some such ;D

Thankies for the vibes. What time is Zumba? I normally jog on Tues and Thurs with Annikah, but I can move it up or down for Zumba. Your posts are making me a bit interested :O

aimeegomeow July 29 2009, 01:32:00 UTC

I have never heard D talk about you, but I don't hang out with them much. DY may be another story...

5:35PM and lasts about an hour.

cynicalgrey July 30 2009, 01:39:56 UTC

Ooooh, just knowing D and the DY/EY synergy (hurrr hurrr), there be talking. To be honest, I am sure I am an old subject, but those three were so focused on what happened in the past that was so lolololzzzfunneee they might still do it. And I don't care, because I know who I am :) If they can't see it or think I am something else, then their loss, non?

I think I can make it. Where is it located? I get off at 4.30 p.m. but I am in Sabine Pass and there is a possibility I might have to stay over tomorrow. Hrrrrmmmmm. That IS perfect timing if I don't have to work over, so here's to crossing fingers! I will let you know if I am or not. :)

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FYI beowulf55 July 29 2009, 07:41:56 UTC

I think its all just fishing, to see if your there and if you give a fu8k about them. In the end, its all about them, in their heads.

Once its over, its over period.

I'm not sure you can be friends with an ex, my perspective, my experiace yes, but it can get very complicated.

I could tell you all the crap that's been going down in my life it it would make you feel any better :)

Re: FYI cynicalgrey July 30 2009, 01:42:54 UTC

Hrm, that's probably true. Fishing, but you know... if they were smart ego-centric kiddos you would think they would play me just a little to get that satisfaction. YOu know, pretend to have interest so that I stroke their ego some ;D At least one of them is pretty spot on about responding and holding conversations with me. But he's also the older guy of the group that isn't part of the "I don't date guys younger than me" crowd.

IMO, once the ship has sailed, it has sailed. It takes something VERY special to allow it back into port.

I think you can have friendships especially if the relationship wasn't too serious. None of these were, or at least not to me (having loved and been close to marriage, those relationships were trivial bits to set my heart beating).

Please share! I could use some fellow misery. :)

Re: FYI beowulf55 July 30 2009, 06:59:53 UTC

Yep, agree, there can't be much stroking of ego's if there no dialoge, perhapse, its more vague concern or a sense of guilt and a failure to follow it through. The only times I stood girls up back when I was young, was when I kind of knew it was the wrong thing. Sort of torn between doing the right thing and nothing, and guess what, its much easier to just do nothing ( ... )

Re: FYI beowulf55 July 30 2009, 15:23:26 UTC

birthdaystories July 30 2009, 04:49:16 UTC

this is the story of my life

cynicalgrey August 1 2009, 00:37:49 UTC

Yay for douche bags attracted to super bad ass womens and being pussies.

Actually, ironically enough one of the exes talked to me today all boo hoo you never talk to me no mo, and I'm all "Yeah, well you don't either, snatch." But I said it way more eloquent since I had only two beers instead of three (Happy Hour and Amstel Lights ftw).

BTW, thanks for the add. I lost access to LJ from work the second I was friending you back. I was quite pissed and all what the fuck.

Enjoy the "I have had three beers" comment :)

birthdaystories August 1 2009, 03:21:08 UTC

i love you already

I give fucks! drasca August 1 2009, 18:32:17 UTC

Looks like I'll need to buy a top hat, monocle, cane, coat with tails, and mustasche to look like the Monopoly man, and jump around in a big pewter shoe.

Wait... monopoly man... or Mr Peanut?!? Is it a conspiracy? Are they... THE SAME MAN!? Looks like I have some shoes to fill.

paintitrouge August 19 2009, 21:38:02 UTC

I really can empathise, boys can be such bitchy fuckers.

cynicalgrey September 10 2009, 01:04:12 UTC

I miss you. Sorry I have been away from LJ. I think about you often. ABout to start the p90x training system. :O