you know what I don't understand? Why when I say I'm polyamorous, people automatically say I'm polygamous! that WE are polygamous. And then it's like "No, no, nononono... I don't wanna MARRY more than one person, I just wanna be able to date more than one person. I don't believe in marriage at all, remember?" and then maybe go into the whole love =/= measurable spiel. BAH. It's... irritating when people add labels to shit because they think it fits >-< (love you, babyyyyyy)