Comments | da_pimpmasta: Happy new year (MST)

da_pimpmasta

Happy new year (MST)

Jan 01, 2009 00:10

To help me with my resolution... Does anyone have any advice on how to take on your problems one at a time? Everything kind of got piled on me at once in December, and if I could deal with one thing at a time I think I could be fine with it, but it's all hitting me at once and I can't seperate...

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this is katie anonymous January 1 2009, 08:39:42 UTC

i wish i had advice. unfortunately, my only advice consists of effexor xr and abilify. not that it's helping me YET, but i have the hope that the combination/cocktail will eventually be of use. maybe that's enough.

journalspace.com failed. i think i will die. all of my thoughts - thoughtlessly unsaved in any concrete format by me...lost. lost forever. i will die.

i love you.

Re: this is katie da_pimpmasta January 2 2009, 03:39:54 UTC

love

servermonkey January 1 2009, 15:52:25 UTC

I wish had some sage advice for you. This past year hit my wife and I with some doozies (sp?) right at the beginning of the year. It has taken us until about November to work some of it out--and still shudder at some things and haven't forgiven some people for things that have occurred.

Tevilam anonymous January 1 2009, 20:21:52 UTC

At first I thought What would a Tevilam have to offer of sage advice? Not much since I'm self absorbed in my middle aged angst. I did the same thing you did last night...just another new years eve...I was never big on New years eve, used to like to spend the night with whatever guy I was with that year, can't really remember them....shrugs.
For me, my real new years eve is my birthday. I only have to share it with roughly one three hundred and fifty-two percent of the world population. That's when I get to see my friends and truly revel in another new year. This is why I'm making a massive effort to go see you in Vegas for your twenty first birthday, a much bigger new year mark for you in your life. As opposed to the anonymity of the New year celebration, where we are a grain in the passing of time.
So your real new year will be March twenty second and those that love you and treasure you will celebrate with you.

Re: Tevilam da_pimpmasta January 2 2009, 03:39:38 UTC

Actually tia, that really helps a lot. Just gonna stick it out until then, lol

shecries_muse_ January 2 2009, 21:43:27 UTC

-hug-

I wish I had some masterful advice, but even if I did, changing your ways is hard to do when you're a worrier like you ben-zaur.

try to think of problems as individuals and not as a whole, if you find yourself thinking of one problem and start to panic about the volume of the problems or another problem. Stop yourself, and try to return to the original problem.

Just do the best that you can with each problem, because, that's all you can do, and in the end, if you did your best, whatever outcome that happens couldn't be helped. Because your best is all you can do.

Life never gives you more than you can handle.