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Sometimes you have to face moments of transition in life that are painful. Like the loss of someone important to you. It might be a death. Or a divorce. Or so many things. If it's a death than you have to adjust. That relationship, in the flesh, is over. Forever. But, in failed relationships, you can always hold out hope

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I worked at a funeral yesterday.

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The man who died married early and had three kids. The marriage fell apart and the man left England, wandered for several years became a doctor married again and had two more children. At some point the three older children each went looking for their dad. Some took longer then others, some did very well at making friends with their steps, others not so much but by the time their father died (at 69) they were one group again united by his side. It was wonderful to see this family united (at least for those moments) at his funeral, all saying wonderful things about experiences they had with him over the last years. In a small place in your heart you can hold onto hope, but I agree it needs to not be something up front that causes problems in your daily life. You know I love you and wish I could make it all good, but all I can do is offer you my quiet support and hugs.