Love. Question Mark

[dahohaw]

Earlier today, Kelly asked me if I am in love with Will. My immediate response was probably not. It's a strange phenomenon when I have an idea of the answer but can not actually define the question. Love is one of those things, like god, that I just don't think about. In my world view, I don't need the existence of either and I don't want to waste

Comments

[mangojill]

Yeah... that is a hard one. I think with relationships, it can definitely be really difficult to evaluate whether or not it is "love" or whatever. That being said, I also know people who drop "I love you" within a week or two. Ugh

[silverserpente]

'I like to think of myself as a pragmatic sort of person. I think of the costs and benefits of being with him.'

Maybe that's how you process things-- I remember reading (in a textbook, no less) that 'pragmatic' definitely counts a a relationship style. That doesn't cheapen it or make it any less meaningful for you-- if you're actually happy with it, stick with it. :-) Basically, what Gayle said, with an added 'you are not the only one who thinks like this'.