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35.020 - Finer points
I'm getting more specific with my gender/sexual orientation/preference labels, because these get tricky, and fast, and greatly affect how i deal with TGvE.
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35.018 - Back to straightedge
From Twitter, with additions in square brackets:
That was frighteningly easy. Okay, the new conditional on drinking is: until someone can prove to me that it's for anything but licensing [otherwise irresponsible behavior, which would be privilege fuckery. Cf. Doing something ironically means you're still doing it.] I still can't commit to complete ( Read more... ) -
35.017 - Formal Goodbye
The last post implied it, but it should at least be formalized.
Goodbye, academic culture, nerd culture, geek culture, gamer culture, foodie culture.
You guys just don't get it. Get lost.
If you come crawling back to me, I will facepunch you. -
35.016 - Deconstructionism in Action!
This is where I try to parse these dumb labels into something I can manage so I can choose which battles I fight, and which battles I don't ( Read more... ) -
35.015 - A question
Hi guys, rather than have the information directly on my LJ/Facebook, I'll link you to my Tumblr post and let you answer there.
It's a question about being queer.
Thanks!
PS. I absolutely do not want responses under any circumstances within Facebook, and preferably not under LJ. Period. Tumblr/Twitter only. Thanks. -
35.014 - A reminder on my rejection of ingroups
I don't really have any group I called mine (trans, lesbian, nerd, and geek are the last ones I dropped, as the below alludes to), but a rant I posted on Twitter is a good reminder for people on why I nastily resist self-identifying as much of anything at all, but also how I'm pretty damn sure I know who I am.
Lots of not very nice language.
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35.013 - On sexual assault
i posted this on Tumblr, which means that Facebook will get this twice. Apologies for the spam, but I am very tired of the heterosexual bias and the hateful rhetoric.
Original post here.
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35.011 - The mythical unipegataur
Dating-wise, I guess I'm searching for the mythical unipegataur.
I have a post about bisexuality/pansexuality on TGvE ( Read more... ) -
35.009 - Dating as a privileged framework
I realize that dating works because those in power are able to use dating as a way to hold power with others who hold power, and that mainstream dating is simply a matchmaking tool to allow power circles to stay parallel ( Read more... ) -
35.008 - Taryntorial Year 2012 Resolutions
So, for those of you not aware, Taryntorial New Year falls on May 9.
Resolutions! For Taryntorial Year 2012 (May 9, 2011 to May 8, 2012)...
- I resolve to demand that my needs be addressed in every negotiation I partake.
- I resolve to be less patient with people when my health is on the line.
- I resolve to take care of myself better emotionally, ( Read more... )