Big Life Fuckup

[dal_proud_mom]

Okay, so what do you do when you think you've totally fucked up? What do you do when you have totally trusted the wrong people and hurt the family you know that loves you, no matter what issues there are between you? What do you do when you care really deeply from the heart and realize that you really were used?  And you have made the wrong life

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[anonymous]

HMMM....tough questions.....I think that there is no such thing in life as a total f-up. Everything happens for a reason EVERYTHING! We may never understand that reason or even think there was one, but you can't live in retrospect. Sure hindsight is 20/20, but without lifes trials and tribulations and yes, even some losses it really wouldn't be much more than a bad movie. I never realized that my father meant anything to me at all until he passed away 9 years ago. I totally backed away from everything and everybody and unfortunately in the process alienated many friends and family undeservingly. Do I regret doing so? Well I may not have ended up where I am today if things had gone differently back then so I would have to say no. HOWEVER...do I regret not relying on friends and family to help me get through the tough time? Yes...but if doing so would have changed where I am today then it would have to be another resounding "no". Whatever doesn;t kill you, makes you stronger and more able to appreciate life.

Big Life Fuckup

[dal_proud_mom]

I am sorry about your father.

Thanks, whoever you are, for sharing your opinions. You make lots of good sense! :-)