So a secret that my Dad and I have been guarding for....quite a while is out in the open. Well, not so much in the open, but now my cousin Tiffany knows about it
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I dont have much to offer other than *hugs* and just know that you're not alone. If you ever need an ear or anything please, just know its here - no judgement, no pressure <3 remember to take care of yourself too hon, I know it can get so hard trying to keep things together, keeping up this facade of 'everythings fine' that it can feel like theres nothing left -just remember you matter too, and while I don't know you that well and I know its easier said than done; try to remember its not your responsibility. You love them and that you're trying so hard is - amazing but its not a pressure you should have to struggle with and i'm sorry that you do. sorry *wry smile* just ignore me if i'm not helping, I can get pretentious sometimes and while I don't know exactly what you're going through - I do sympathise and kind of know that feeling of i'm going fucking insane, I know it. just - yeah, you're not alone. *proffers hugs* I hope things do get better hon <3
Thank you. Every little bit of support helps. I've sort of spent my entire life taking care of my parents, and while I in no way expect high praise and a parade, a little validation boosts my spirits. Sometimes I just get the feeling that I'm running in circles and making a lot of commotion to no avail, which is frustrating, and I get angry because no one ever told me how to deal with this life. I'm just making it up as I go. But I never have the courage to bring this sort of thing up to my parents or even my friends. This is the only place I can be as brutally honest as I want, and you guys always know the right thing to say. ^_^ Thank you again. *hugs back*
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remember to take care of yourself too hon, I know it can get so hard trying to keep things together, keeping up this facade of 'everythings fine' that it can feel like theres nothing left
-just remember you matter too, and while I don't know you that well and I know its easier said than done; try to remember its not your responsibility. You love them and that you're trying so hard is - amazing but its not a pressure you should have to struggle with and i'm sorry that you do. sorry *wry smile* just ignore me if i'm not helping, I can get pretentious sometimes and while I don't know exactly what you're going through - I do sympathise and kind of know that feeling of i'm going fucking insane, I know it.
just - yeah, you're not alone. *proffers hugs* I hope things do get better hon
<3
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