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[pursuitof_love]

I'm getting fed up with my roommate's financial situation. She has no car because apparently he parents gave the car that she was supposed to get to her sister. So, when she can't get a ride from anyone else, I drive her. She's my friend, I don't mind it...if she chipped in for gas. But she doesn't because she "doesn't have the money" to help me

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[toodani]

well it's pretty basic. Times are hard for her, but that doesn't mean she can pass it on to you. Tell her that you can't afford to keep her on as a free roomate. You need a paying one. So if she doesn't feel like she'll be able to make up december's rent through monthly payments, or pay any month after that, then she'll have to move, point blank. It sucks cause she's your friend, but you can't add on that debt.

[red_teardrops]

No, it's not your responsibility, and she should definitely be aware of that. =/

[coritiacus]

What planet does she live on? Tell her if she can't pay the rent she has to move out so you can find someone who CAN. Even if she is your friend, you don't have to pay her way through life. She needs to learn that SHE is responsible for some things, and can't just pass off her responsibilities to others all the time.

[brittdreams]

It's not her responsibility. If anything, you can sue her in small claims court for her half of the December rent. I'd start forwarding her job ads to see if she can take a hint. Or tell her you expect her to move out at the end of November so you can find a paying roommate to move in and pay in December.

[antisocialite]

Obviously this is not your responsibility. She needs to be responsible and pay her share. And if her grandmother gave her money for dorms...most time, living off campus is much cheaper. So she shouldn't have a problem if she had used the grandmother's money responsibly.

However, you are on a lease. If she doesn't pay, someone will. Namely, you. In *most* cases, you will be responsible if she doesn't pay. I had a roommate who was always late on rent and things and I spoke with my landlord about it. Unless you have 2 separate leases, ultimately, it is your responsibility.

I'd suggest you speak to her, tell her she will need to pay her rent on time. Speak to your landlord so she is aware of the situation and can back you up should this end in small claims court. If no one pays that other half...you can both be evicted.